Everytime we have sex, somtimes I Orgasm before she does and she notices and it turns her off, is there a condom out there for that or what do I do?
2006-07-18 18:20:17 · 9 answers · asked by super_j2007 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
They do make condoms and a gel that desensitizes the male. Also most girls cannot have an orgasm without internal and external stimulation. Try getting a battery operated vibrating egg (you'll find them in adult toy stores or online) for her to stimulate herself while your workin it. Also girls are very visual, try seeing how she feels about watching porn while you have sex together. Those things always work for me whether I'm having sex or all alone.
2006-07-18 18:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by silent*scream 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
There are methods to slowing down your ejaculation, however, before resorting to those, keep the following in mind: a woman's body takes up to 20 minutes to prepare for orgasm, so if you are not adequately preparing her by offering that 20 minutes of outercourse (a term I prefer as "foreplay" focuses on "intercourse" as the final goal), then her body is likely not going to be prepared to orgasm. Also, most women are more likely to orgasm with the Four T's in mind: Trust, Time, Touch, and Talk.
2006-07-18 18:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by gahrahstah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
send her to me care of strockman bahamas i promise to send her back on the plane the minute she reaches her 12 orgasm. if all else fails i will feed her to the sharks for you because if i cant do it no one else can . Now down to serious business my freind . Sex for women is allmost 70 percent visual women have to visualise what they are getting into. You have to build a mental sex picture for your lady step one you no that you want some sex that day start by sending her flowers that day or taking her out to lunch, then you want to treat her to a gift some sented soap or cream or some bath candle you get her visual jucieses flowing before she even gets to the bed room then you want to take your time remember its not about you its a we thing in the slings . PERHAPS OVER SOME NICE RED WINE YOU MAY WANT TO ASK HER WHAT EXCITES HER. IF THIS IS INDEED YOUR LADY YOU WANT TO KNOW WHAT MAKES HER TICK DONT BE AFRAID TO ASK then again if all eles fails try the former suggestion ok
2006-07-18 18:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by gasmanrolle 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well i have been married 13 years so you need to let her do the playing and teasing on you first to make herself *** or try oral if she's not that familiar on how to give herself an orgasms ..... Then you do your thing lol the reason why it turns her off because most men go soft once they ***
2006-07-18 19:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by squirt101sexxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright bro my specialty! here we go, first off perform oral sex on her to get her THERE way before you even start, if you dont like performing oral you have 2 fingers, use em. then when your having sex and you feel like your about to blow, change positions this gives you extra time to compose yourself. Also why having sex rub her vagina or have her rub it while your having sex, this drives my girl crazy and she ALWAYS blows first.Good luck
2006-07-18 18:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by TEH N00B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to play around with her before. Foreplay is definitly the key in this situation. Massage? Candles? whatever turns her on.
2006-07-18 18:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Give her oral sex. If you're not using a condom you should.
2006-07-18 18:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by herdoula 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
clitoral stimulation
2006-07-18 18:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by POCOYO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex until you are married.
2006-07-18 18:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 8⤋