Can someone explain this to me????

Question

Why are some homosexual males atracted to femenine acting men? I thought the point of being homosexual was that you like MEN. Can someone educate me as to why that is?

Answer 1

Feminine men are still men - even if they don't act like it. And yes, you are correct, being homosexual means you are mentally and physically attracted to men, of all sorts, not just the ones that look like jocks. I am gay and not feminine, but I have occasionally been attracted to one, some of them are pretty good looking guys and can be pretty cool once you get them away from everyone else and get to know them. I personally feel that it is shallow to judge someone by your initial perception of them. I have come to enjoy the company of many people that I did not like at first. So I guess to answer your question, maybe gay men are attracted to feminine men because they are more attracted to their personality and friendship rather than just how they act.

Answer 2

I would think that there are four kinds of Gay men.
1. Men who act like men, and want someone that acts like a man.
2. Men who act more fem, and wanted to be treated as a woman.
3. Men who act like men, but want someone that is more feminine.
4. Femine men who want a masculine male.
Your type would be # 3. A masculine male that is wanting to be the more masculine person of the couple.

Answer 3

Thats not even true. Because thats the complete opposite with me. I dont like really girly guys. Its a bit of a like turn-off. And yeah so some like them. Because they act that way and they have a penis. I dont know why some do, but I kno that im not attrated to that kind of guy. Nope its just like annoying sometimes. So yeah thats what I think on the subject.

Answer 4

Uh, someone has to climb on top? No, that was rude - - - in truth all sorts of men like all sorts of men. Often it is 'safer' to go after those that are overtly feminine because they are 'obviously queer.' Often those that seem feminine are actually harder than a case of nails. Much like women. You probably know more than a few women who could bust you in two.

Answer 5

As a heterosexual, I'm not attracted to feminine acting men because they are...men. Coincidentally, I think that may be why some gay men are attracted to them. I'm pretty sure sexuality is about the equipment not neccessarily the attitude.

Answer 6

attraction is unexplainable, you like who you like. why worry about it, when we question other gay men or put down feminine men we're just playing into the hands of all the bigots and homophobes who seek to desroy us all. look at it this way every man who likes a fem gives you a better shot at all the humpy blue collar action out there :)

Answer 7

It looks like you should read about the gay bear community, haha.

I can't stand the feminine stereotype, but unfortunatly that's true for a lot of guys, and you can't hate people if what they like is differen't than your taste. And unfortunatly people listen to stereptypes, which is the worst thing. There are plenty of "normal" gay guys.

Answer 8

Humans are strange creatures.
Ladies who act as guys are not really guys.
They only lack of the feminine touch.
The guys acted as ladies are looking for their masculine side too.
so they are attached by what they lack.But this information is not totally truth..

Answer 9

I'm sure someone can.

It could be that it is because feminine men have the attitude of women but retain the tackle?

I'm sure someone can.

Answer 10

It is called perversion of the mind. It shows that being gay is not a normal thing, otherwise people would naturally be gay, without the perversion required to twist the view of the sexes.