Help!! please abortion help asap?

Question

Ok so heres the deal i got wasted one night and had sex with this guy and i think we used a condom but im not totally sure and i really dont want to be pregnant but how do i know if i am and its getting late in the month and i havent had my period yet but i just had it 3 weeks ago and either i am really paranoid or i ahve a possibility of being pregnant...so what happens if i am that would be a disaster and then i would have to get an abortion!!! but im so scared to get one of those i would want the pill version which way is the best and least scary? please help me? and if i had to get an abortion how much would it cost and would it be confidential?

Answer 1

you are "like" to young to be up this late asking this question !!

you need to talk to your parents, and that my dear is no joke. I am a parent my self, and trust me, we get really pissed off, but then we become helpful !!!

As fas as an abortion... they make you wait until the baby's heart beats before they do any thing at all, in my opinion that is really sick !!!! It is murder.

I was rapped long ago, and I almost aborded her, I went to the clinic, and every thing, almost did it, then cried, I couldnt complete it !!!
I looked around the room, and it was full of women like you, who got in the situation and now needed an out !!!
I walked out of that evil, sinful place, and had my child.

It wasnt easy by any means at all, but I am very happy that I did have her, because I cant imagine not having her now.

Also if you have the baby and decide you dont want it, you dont have to keep it, let some family that cant have children, adopt it.

But..... first thing is, you get your butt to a OB/GYN and talk to them now, if your only a week from your period, they can make you get it, and you wont have to worry.

then get your butt on the depo shot, it is birth control you only have to remember 3 times a year, it is well worth it.

Answer 2

Well honey, this is a tough situation that your in. First off, get a home pregnancy test. Try to ease your worries. If it is positve, take it from there on what your going to do next. Now, I have had 2 abortions. It is nothing to brag about but you need to look up what they do and how it can affect you now and later in life. The pill form isn't legal and is sold on black market. DO NOT GET THE PILL. The last abortion I had was in 2001 and it was $600. The first one I had 2 years previous to that was $800. The further along you are the more expensive it is. Let me tell you, don't let anyone force you to do it. That's what happened to me and I suffer from it every day and will forever it seems. I have so many problems now that most women don't experience in years. So much heartache and pain, real pain...not just emotional. I suffered from depression and have PID disease from it. Which in other words, every female reproductive part of my body is severly infected that it has to be removed. I have a a lot of miscarries due to scar tissue in my uterus. There was more scar tissue in there than there was for a fetus to grow. But there is a hope side, I did get pregnant, again, and was put on complete bed rest through the whole pregnancy because the first 5 months of my pregnancy, I bled non-stop. I made it though and now my baby is 4 months old and I am still having problems. So now I have to pick up where I left off and remove it all. Abortion is scary. There is no way out of it. I promise honey...I've been there. If I could take it back, I would. You don't know how hard it is. And if the doctors mess up like they did me(I was too far a long the first time and they did the wrong procedure), your in trouble honey. There is no safe abortion and some women still die. But I am not going to tell you what to do. I thought I would give you a little feed back on what I experienced and you can decide from there but look up abortion on your search engine. You will soon find out what it is and that it isn't healthy...especially if you want kids later in life. I got lucky. I was told I'd never have a baby, and through the grace of God I did. Hopefully you aren't pregnant so you don't have to go through the God awful trauma that you and your mind and body will feel for years to come. I will do this, if you need more info...contact me...

Answer 3

I can answer this question honestly i was 18 when i first got pregnant i decided i didn't want it well l it cost me 450 dollars an d a lot of pain for about a week after wards not to mention the guilt you feel from it. If i had my choice i would take it back. my baby was almost 15 weeks old. I regret everyday what i did. Not to mention they didn't give me enough pain medication and i was awake most of the procedure. which to me doesn't equal out the amount of pain that baby felt. It is you r choice but make sure you know everything about it. I was trying to get into the army and i had to make sure that i wasn't testing positive for being pregnant so i went to some church organization that did free testing and not even aw eek after i did it i had to watch a video of the procedure. It made me cry to see it. Honestly i now have a 4 month old baby girl. I'm only 20 but i wouldn't trade her for the world. Also before you have an abortion think about adoption there are a ton of people who cant have babies that would give anything to have one!!! It s your choice make the best decision for you!!! if your pregnant that is.

Answer 4

Firstly, calm down and do a home pregnancy test - no one needs to know, you can get one from the drugstore. Secondly, don't start thinking about abortion even if you are pregnant. Obviously, you're scared at the idea and with good reason. Consider all the options, such as adoption and keeping the child. Remember, if you are pregnant you have a live human being inside you. Don't make your situation any worse by doing something you'll regret later. I haven't met any women who were glad they had an abortion, but I know heaps who are torn apart that they did. Check out standupgirl.com.

Answer 5

The morning after pill is only effective if taken no more than 72 hours after sex. If it's been longer than that... go get a pregnancy test to put your mind at ease (get a double so you can make sure of the results). If you are pregnant, you can speak to planned parenthood about options... and if you decide to go with an abortion, and you have insurance, it will be covered (though it will be on your health record). If you want to do it confidentially, you can visit a clinic and pay for it yourself (roughly $400) and you could always give them a fake name.

Answer 6

I have some questions for you. 1. How old are you? 2. Do you have a job? 3. Are you sure the only option is abortion:most people end up regretting it. I'm a mother of 5 raising my kids on my own with no support from the father: monatary or other ways. I couldn't imagine life without them. It's been hard,but worth it. I would get a preagnancy test so you will at least know for sure. Or call your local Planned parenthood or pregnancy helpline.They give tests for free and birth control. Dont jump into any rash decisions. If you need to contact me feel free.

Answer 7

You are 16 I take it? Well have I got a view for you.
I am not against abortion. I am however against stupidity. Yours to be more specific. You think that you are old enough to have sex? To have pleasure with no pain? You want your desert and have no consequences? Nope, not yet. In my opinion you are a spoiled brat. You deserve whatever you are given.
You chose to whore around. Now you must cope with the consequences of your actions. I am a firm believer in abortion in SOME cases. In your case however, should you be pregnant, you should shoulder the responsibility and PAIN of childbirth. Then decide if you want to raise the child that you have carried for 10 months, or , put it up for adoption.
If you are not pregnant (thank God) I hope that you have a nice little STD. Something simple, like herpes or HIV. Something for you to tell your friends about, so that they wont, make the same stupid mistakes as you have.

Answer 8

LOOK i know it was something stupid you done one night but, it happened and if you are pregnant you are one of the luck people that can have children there are some people that try for years upon year and it never happens for them. I know oh be leave me I know that stupid stuff happen when your out drinking but PLEASE think twice if you are pregnant about having an abortion. Adoption is just as good and your giving someone a very special gift that they've been wait to experience there whole life and that baby that's grow in in you ( and it is a precious baby in there) will have a chance to live and be happy.
This is come from someone that's been there and it is a precious gift for someone. :)

Answer 9

First-
Don't panic! You are still a week away from your period and if you worry too much stress can delay your period making you even more stressed.
I will not preach to you about what I believe, it is not my life. I do not recommend the pill. It is quite unpleasant and can have dire side effects. It is not an easy out but it is your decision. (Before anyone here gets offended, I am against abortion on principal, but I cannot live anyone elses life. Only she can live her own life!)
You could choose adoption or abortion IF you are pg. First check if you are pg.
Chances are you are not and things will be ok.
Good Luck!

Answer 10

I wish that you didn't think abortion was the only option. I mean seriously you made the choice to get waisted and you made the choice to have sex so therefor you gave up your choice to decide if you get pregnant or not. If you are pregnant look for a good adoption agency, some people are responsible and not lucky enough to have children the least you could do is help them out by giving them what you are to irresponsible to handle!! Sorry if this offends you but the way you are talking is so immature that I can't think of being more honest!

Abortion is murder!