my brother has stayed the night at a gay guy's house 3 nights in a row. I know they have been partying together, but I thought maybe this is an unusual situation.
2006-07-18 18:04:33 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I hang out with a bunch of gay dudes at college, mixed amongst the heterosexual population though. And back down at home I play magic the gathering and occasionally go hiking with a gay guy, so from my experience it is rather normal.
But if he likes batting for the other team then let him do his thing.
2006-07-18 18:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by Lucifer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing wrong with it. In fact, I'd be happy that your brother isn't homophobic as many men are these days. Just because he's hanging out with a gay man doens't mean he''s gay, nor that the gay mans atracted to him. Chill. There's nothing to worry about.
2006-07-19 01:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight men do not hang out with men who are bent. That is why they are straight. Birds of a feather stick together. Out of the blue, ask you rbrother if he has had any strange dreams lately?
If he describes what people call nightmares and if his eyes have a strange gloss, as if another set of eyes are peering from within, you might have a new sister.
Boaz.
2006-07-19 01:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by Boaz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have a gay roommate years ago. I didn't know that when I moved in with him or I never would have done it. I laid down the rules with him after I found out and told him he shouldn't bother trying to convert me because I loved women and what they had to offer me. My biggest rule was if I ever caught him peeping in the bathroom on me he'd be hospitalized for a long long time. We stayed friends for awhile. In your brothers case you should just ask him if he's gay.
2006-07-19 01:10:30 · answer #4 · answered by Greg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know some guys who hang out with gay guys. However, they don't go sleeping over at their houses for 3 days. I do know some gay and bisexual guys that will do this though.
2006-07-19 01:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mawyemsekhmet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I do not know about your brother but my husband and I have a few gay friends and there is NO difference than staight friends.And if by chance your brother is gay does that change things for the two fo you?
2006-07-19 01:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by moondancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, I hang out and spend the night over straight guys places. Just because we are both guys it doesn't mean we have sex together. I know they are straight, they know I'm not interested, it's a perfect friendship. Something tells me that your brother is curios or at least bi.
2006-07-19 01:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by Erik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all of the straight men that i know dont hang out with gay guys unless they have girlfriends who have gay friends. my friend is married and his wife works with gay men and when they go out they all hang out together but he would never hang out or spend the night at his house. he says there cool and all but he wouldnt hang out with them. maybe hes just curious
2006-07-19 01:07:26 · answer #8 · answered by married1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I have had a gay friend before. DOESN'T mean I'm gay.
Not that there is anything wrong with that. : )
Actually, three days in a row? NM. Your brother is gay.
2006-07-19 01:06:46 · answer #9 · answered by someDumbAmerican 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very very rarely. in fact, quite impossible, unless there is another woman in the group, who is often, the friend of the gay man. straight men are programmed to fear and revile the company of gay men. hetero men fear being being seen with gay men as people might think the hetero is also gay. that is the truth of the matter.
hence:
hetero man + gay man = impossible
2006-07-21 01:43:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋