Mature Content~~~~Men and Women both?

Question

Okay so my husband and I have been togather 5 years now.And its not that sex isnt good, cuz it is but I would love to shock him with some new "tricks"! I want it to be better than its ever ben before!!!!-Men please explain (in detail) what you LOVE and the things that turn you on the most!Women~What have you found to drive your man wild!!!Thanks in advance!!!!

Answer 1

Try this lizzibell, invite him to dinner. A restaurant you both enjoy.
Wear something you know he finds very sexy on you. At dinner you need to show him that you have confidence and are willing to try almost anything! Ask him what some of his favorite fantasies that the two of you have done or not tried! Also tell him yours, by the end of dinner the two of you will be so worked up you will barely make it home. In the parking lot, kiss him passionately and rub yourself up against him. On the way home at each stop sign or stop light, kiss him and touch him, you know where! Once home, have him stand in front of you and continue to kiss him and rub yourself against him while slowly removing all of his clothes! Have him lay on the bed and you now turn on some music that you have ready. Make it a song that you can dance to, one with a good beat. As it's playing, dance to it while removing your clothes! You don't have to be a stripper to strip for your husband! Believe me, my wife has done this for me many times and it's the greatest thing in the world! Once the song is over and your clothes are off, lay next to him and start rocking his world! Congrats on the 5 years and have a great, great time!

Answer 2

Well if you've been together for 5 years you probably know a bit about what turns him on.

The biggest things are the following:

1. Boldness: Be willing to initiate and come on strong. Suprise at the door when he comes home from work....attack him, or be in a provocative position when he walks through the door (make sure its him first though! lol), or wear a sexy uniform...school girl, nurse, some leather, whatever you think would be up his alley. Or let him catch you going solo and invite him to join you...he'll love that!

2. Confidence: Although similar to boldness, its different. Be confident in what you want. Be eager to please him and know how you want to be pleased. Tell him you need his tongue on your *insert appropriate body part* and he'll be turned on for sure!

Try new positions, and if your open to trying new things, communicate that. If he proposes something that your not sure about, instead of rejecting ask two things: how he thinks you should go about it, and why he wants to do it. If it sounds like something you'd like to try, then do so. If not, then be honest and tell him your not ready for that and suggest something else.

Good luck and hope you succeed in your mission!! If you want to talk more about it (cleanly), feel free to PM.

Answer 3

i attended this pleasure party my girlfriend and purchased this vibrating thongs that comes with this wireless remote and it's really fun and the thought of a man knowing that he's in control of your making you cream from across the room is such a turn on especially when people are around but no one knows what going on why you to are smiling so much it's very quite and no one would hear it. it's fun try that you can find them in adult stores or go to www.partygals.biz you can find alot of fun toys on that site trust me I've been in a relationship for about seven years now and we haven't missed a step yet. another thing you can do is trying talking about his sexual fantasies while you're making love. like what you would do as if your ready to for fill them at that moment. good luck girl

Answer 4

Well it always turns me on when the girl comes onto me, instead of the guy always going in for sex. A good surprise for me would be coming home from work and having my baby all dressed up in something and just go at it hard. Know what I mean?


Edit:

Oh, lay off Edna, she gave fair warning, don't piss your pants, it's an honest question.

Answer 5

well, something to shock him.

ideas

1. cook breakfast while he is still asleep, then bring it to him in bed and wake him up with a BJ while you have the breakfast precariously balanced on your back like a serving tray, that should wake him up and make him smile and then make him brag at work too.

2. take it up the booty and talk dirty to him.

3. tell him you want a threesome with another woman in your bed.

4. take him outside and do it in a public place.

5. use your imagination

Answer 6

I believe, which is against my principles, that a man loves to watch or be involved with 2 woman at once being together.

Answer 7

My man loves my confidence and willingness to initiate sex. I'm always into making love with him and he's turned on knowing that I find him so hot I can't keep my hands off him.

Answer 8

Try asking him to watch a porn with you. Men love that and it will probably drive him wild

Answer 9

I like to suck on his nipples it drives him so crazy......and I suck on his ear...then I lick all the way down...hehe til I get to his hard manhood than I lick up and down that and and than I put it in my mouth...nibble softly and than I put my mouth all the way down on his penis....I have actually just now learned how to deep throat for my baby so he really loves it... I am serious. That's probably why he begs me for a ******* and will almost make me do it..hehe.

Answer 10

During a BJ, I like it when my wife licks my balls and jerks me off at the same time.

I like it when she takes control of the situation, but not to a dominatrix level.

I like it when she uses her vibrator on herself during anal.

More importantly than anything, I like it when she WANTS me. When I feel like the only thing she needs in the world is me giving it to her.

There you go. Detailed enough?