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2006-07-18 17:48:11
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answered by asoldierswife 7
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First, how do you know? Did she tell you, or has she tried? If she has told you/threatened to, GET HER HELP. An understanding adult (is your mom cool?), a counselor at school, a fave teacher (they are at school, preparing for the upcoming term-tell them it's an emergency!) a minister, a suicide hot line. Tell someone who will take you seriously, and TELL THEM NOW!! If there isn't anyone you could call, talk to her. If you know her situation and it's something she can get over (a break up, etc) tell her that she needs to stick around just to see how much better she can do. If she kills herself, it's over. Who knows what she could do with her life... She could go to college....meet someone rich...whatever you have to do to get her thinking that this is NOT the end of the world. I was the same when I was 14 or 15. But NOTHING is EVER hopeless! They may be unbearable for a while, but things can and WILL improve! If nothing else, get her thinking about how much YOU would miss her, and how it will affect YOU. Tell her she IS worthy, IS LOVABLE and LOVED!
If you need other advice, email me, I'm happy to help.
azgirlatheart@adelphia.net
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-07-18 18:02:31
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answered by shannon e 2
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I agree with mag's usually it"s for attention. Most of the time people don't tell anyone when their going to commit sucide. Their just crying out for help, or attention. Go with your heart.
2006-07-18 17:51:55
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answered by Leigh B 1
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I would call a hotline and maybe family member to tell them. I would also be there for that girl and let her know I will listen anytime night or day if she needs to talk. It is not a good way to solve any problem. People who are left behind when someone chooses suicide are forever hurt by it. There is help out there for people who feel so hopeless. Do what you can to help her.
2006-07-18 17:50:58
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answered by felisuncia 3
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I would be her best friend, and find out why she want to commit suicide and try to work out the problems together. I want to say dedicate my life for her, but I really doubt that I can truly do that. I would not be telling the truth If I said that. but If we became good friends than maybe I can say that, I would do that, and make her part of the family. Easier said than done.
2006-07-18 17:54:57
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answered by Mr. Advise = ) 2
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Convince her that her life is worth meaning and that you care for her let her have something good happen to her, find out something she has wanted to do all her life then see if you can do it for her really attempt or atleast make it seem like you are let her take notice of it. She will see what your doing and wont want to commit suicide because she knows she has a real friend something to live for
2006-07-18 17:50:04
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answered by airjayzgo 2
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You have to tell someone. If this girl commited suicide how do you think that you would feel for the rest of your life, knowing that you knew this and did nothing to help her? A person who really cares would do the right thing and get her some help. Please!!!
2006-07-18 17:52:07
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answered by Cath 1
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911
2006-07-18 18:01:05
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answered by Anonymous
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Call 911 and stay with her until help arrives. The people who said
to leave her alone or that if she was serious she would not say anything are dead wrong! Most people who commit suicide tell someone before they do it.
2006-07-18 17:58:18
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answered by Smartassawhip 7
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Get her some help immediately. Call 911 if she's in imminent danger to herself. Get her the phone number of the national suicide hot line. I'd do the same if it was a boy, too.
2006-07-18 17:48:54
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answered by sacredmud 4
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Suicide threats are a common type of manipulation in situations like this. First, you would possibly want to no longer provide in to the blackmail -- you comprehend that you do not beling with this lady, so staying which include her for worry that she will be able to kill herself does neither of you any sturdy. 2d, you would possibly want to tell someone. easily bypass on your father and mom with it, and also you and your acquaintances might want to likely refer to her father and mom to boot. in case you do not do this, you'll experience negative if she consists of out her probability (you'll besides, yet a minimum of you've executed something to objective to sidestep it).
2016-11-06 19:26:56
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answered by ? 4
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