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Question

I want to try something new to my husband. What is the most differant way to pleasure your love one. I want him to be suprised in the bed room please help me out.

Answer 1

Coming from a man's perspective I would say trying something intruing like..make him comfortable and not nervous first of all.Secondly, don't give him any hints at what your going to surprise him with or where at the moment.Lastly,don't whip out sex to him especially if he's used to it..try another tactic.

However, I would suggest a warm steamy bath with a sensual not sexual message. Followed by a candle lite dinner over your favorite meal and drink or an "open conversation." Ask him if he likes this or like that ..Wear something sexy to get his mind, body, and you know the rest stimulated.Cap it off with mini gifts, a pleasurable passionate note, and give him something that he would obviously remember but make it a special one! Because when in doubt we husbands like bragging to our male friends about "look what my wifey got for me this year, last year, 5 years ago...just to name a few." But we never talk about what goes on in the rooms of our houses or overtly expose secrets that our wives have done for us to the public."get my drift."

When in doubt do not buy him a pair of something that reminds him of work relations or common house chores...just to name a few. Remember the key word here is "how well remembered and romantic YOU want to make this for him." Pleasurable toys, key points of affirmation and affection with benefits usually will do the trick and have fun.

--Big Tigga 2

Answer 2

Why does it have to be in the bedroom?

Our favorite spot is in the bathtub. There's nothing like taking a hot relaxing calgon bath with candles going. There's a lot of things you can do in the tub also .

Talk about relieving the stress!!

Answer 3

You can dance for him in a sexy outfit. Have fruit being eaten from eachother, or whip cream. You can always do this outside of home. Try having it on the beach. Personally, I find this hot. You can also dress like a sexy officer and cuff him, doing dirty stuff to him. Wish you the best.

Answer 4

When he comes in, be laying there stark naked, with your ankles tied to the foot of the bed, the rope resting on your wrists for he to do your arms, a big rose in your teeth, and a can of whip cream and a feather duster on the bedstand.

Answer 5

Well since I don't know what you have ever done I don't know if I can help you there. I do know that my husband likes it sometimes if I take control and use some roughness with him. Have you guys ever talked about fantasies? Think about what his fantasies are and try one out. If not, why not ask him what fantasies he has? Talk to him about what he likes, what he is willing to do, and what he would love to have done to him. Then you will know what to do.

Answer 6

Without knowing what you've already done, it's hard to tell what would be new and different. For example, you could try playing with his anus with a well-lubricated finger while you give him a *******.

Answer 7

Go outside of the bedroom

Answer 8

Bring in a dildo to let him play with you...it is pleasurable for the both of you!!

Answer 9

I think if u give him a good message and wear a sexy outfit that will make him more romantic.

Answer 10

talk dirty to him, not nasty but dirty. also try different positions (karma sutra) and also be a little more aggressive or passive i don't know how you guys are in the bedroom.