I left my girlfriend for (1 years and a half) for someone eles, and i only new this person for 2 months now and now im getting engaged to this person, will i regret it? Did i make a mistake?
2006-07-18 17:10:41 · 11 answers · asked by confussed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you're getting in engaged after only 2 months, well I cant say for sure but I think that you might regret it.
2006-07-18 17:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by Karce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DId she pressure you to get engaged? If so, make it a loooooong engagement to make sure. I dont know your age but if you are under, say, 25, don't rush into marriage (please!) I think a year should be the minimum engagement time in most cases; I met my bf and it was 3-1/2 years before we got married - although we did move in together pretty quickly. We had both been married b4 and didn't want to make the same mistake again.
I don't think 8 weeks is long enough to know anyone and make a lifetime commitment. If it's true love, it will stay that way and you can announce your wedding plans in 2007.
(Also it will hurt your ex a great deal if you get married too quickly - think of her feelings a little, huh?)
2006-07-18 17:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by Samlet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and yes. You're crazy to leave such a long relationship for some stranger you only knew for a few months. Actually get to know a person first before you make such a huge sacrifice and break somebody's heart. You shouldn't even be dating yet after such a long relationship, you need time to get over that person before you can move on. On top of that, you need to be with a person a lot longer than 2 months before you can say you want to spend the rest of your life with them. Just asking these questions should indicate to you that something isn't right here and you need to take a huge step back.
2006-07-18 17:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by jellybean24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you only dated this person for 2 months. Second of all you are having doubts. I personally think that you need to pump your brakes. You are already feeling regret for leaving you gf of 1 1/2 years. I think that your problem is that you SERIOUSLY need to slow down, you are headed for disaster. I know too many people not honoring thier wedding vows because they are too cheap to get a d**n divorce.
2006-07-18 17:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by skyblu513 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How dumb are you? You're stupid for wanting to marry someone you have only known for 2 months. If you didn't love your girlfriend, then breaking up with her was the right choice, but if you did love her and broke up with her anyway, trust me dude, you made a HUGE mistake!
2006-07-18 17:14:39 · answer #5 · answered by Karma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so u plan on spending the rest of your life with a girl you've just known for 2 months? sounds like you moving too fast. But hey if its true love then both of you will be fine. I guess time will tell! Be prepared for anything!!
2006-07-18 17:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by Becky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter how long your other relation ship was. if you really love them, its ok. but, are you SURE that your not rushing this other one to make your ex jelous or to forget her? maybe you sould think about that a bit first. its ok if you did. i did the same thing (ok i didnt get marride, im a bit to young.... but i know what your talking about)
2006-07-18 17:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by Marissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know
Figure it out for yourself
Sounds like your too young and immature for marriage
2006-07-18 17:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!! your not over your ex girlfriend . do you love this other girl?
p.s. send me a message back !
2006-07-18 17:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by sheena w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno- i think 2 months is too small, however if u fink u made the right decision, u wont regret it.
2006-07-18 17:13:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋