i wanna get pregnant, im young and it seems hard to do?

Question

i have had sex many times i want to get pregnant. i cant understand why i am not. i am very young is there ne thing i should be doing that maybe im not doing.

Answer 1

It's not how many times you've had sex, it's when you have sex. You can only get pregnant if you're ovulating, so I suggest studying your cycles to figure out when you're doing so or even buying an ovulation testing kit. If you don't have any luck within 6 months to a year, you should go to a doctor and make sure you don't have fertility problems.

Answer 2

I'm not going to directly answer this question because if you say that you are young, then you are probably too young. Aside from the obvious reasons for you not needing to have a baby (not being mature enough, financially able/established, etc.), you don't need to have a child for the sake of your child's health. Most young girls (under the age of 17) who get pregnant do not receive the appropriate prenatal care that they need. In addition, a teenager's body is still growing and maturing. In most cases, babies born to young mothers are underweight and/or premature, have a number of health problems, and have a very high infant mortality rate (that means they run a greater risk of dying before the age of two). It's not worth it, at this age, to bring a child into the world with that danger. 9 out of 10 times, if you can't get pregant, you don't need to be.

Answer 3

I would hate to give advice on how to get PG to someone who is not truly ready to raise a baby. Nonetheless even young women need real information and shuld be given the facts. please dont get pregnant if you are not able to feed, clothe, provide medical benefits, and a home as well as a father for a child. It is cruel to decide to do this if your man is not willing. please be mature and if you are teenaged and unemployed DONT DO THIS!!!! That being said here are some ways any woman would increase her chances. First off, a healthy ovulating woman only has a 20% chance of getting pregnant in a given cycle. You need to know enough about your cycle to know when you are ovulating. Usually, in a woman with the average 28 day cycle that would be around day 14 after the first day of menstrual bleeding. Then there are other signs your amazing body will give. You should check with the book "taking charge of your fertility" because this gives incredibly good info on how a wman can know when she is most fertile. 1. your vaginal fluids will be much wetter, often profuse in quantity, and like raw egg-white. This fluid provides the perfect medium for sperm to swim to the destination and usually shows up 24 to 48 hrs before the egg is released. also your cervix will open and soften. you can feel this with some practice. normally the cervix is firm like the tip of your nose. you might also feel twinges on one side sometimes ovulatory pan is present and is a good indication that a folicle in the cervix is swelling and about to erupt with an egg. it is also good to remember that the egg only survives for about 6-12 hours after ovulation so its best to have had sex before ovulation so that sperm are in there waiting to fertilize the egg. sperm can usually live in the vagina and uterus for about 3-5 days and fertilization usually happens in the falopian tube. So, you see that your body will tell you allyou need to knw if things are normal and fertile. Also, meditating with your partner about intentionaly creating a life is a wise thing. Dont just casually have sex and then go about your day. put some energetic intention into this. and please be ready to have a baby with a person who will be a good father. babies need dads and moms who love and respec one another.

Answer 4

If you are younger than 18.. maybe god has a reason why you are not getting pregnant.. something similar happened to me. If you are over 18 and strongly desire to become pregnant you should see a OB/GYN Dr. if you are having normal periods there should not be a problem... if your periods are irregular ( meaning you skip some months) you might need some type of medication to assist you. Also if you have had an STD or STI it can also be a reason.. and you should follow up with a Dr. ASAP.

Answer 5

Yes, it's waiting until you are older. I'm assuming you are less than 18 yrs old, and although babies are cute and adorable, at a young age, they can and probably will, just cause your life to hit rock bottom. You'll no longer have a life of your own, you'll be a single young mother, working several jobs, just to pay for the necessities for your child, and living paycheck to paycheck because what you don't use for shopping will be used for a babysitter, for then you can work your job to get the money needed.

Answer 6

sweetie, be careful on what u ask for especially a young pregnancy. I got pregnant at the age of 13 and had him when I was 14. I missed out on all my chidhood, a highschool dropout,on welfare and needless to say on drugs. Yes, there is other things that u can be doing a awesome thing is u can be going to school to get ur education and to church so u can learn how to live the way God expects us to live. Please reconsider about an baby not saying they r not precious, u have ur whole life ahead of you, so stay encouraged..

Answer 7

Why on earth would you want to get pregnant? Having a child is not like playing barbie dolls. Babies are real and require both parents to invest in many factors. If you are young, there is no way that you are mature enough to raise a child. If you want my advise, go get your head checked, if you know what that means.

Answer 8

First of all how young are you? Are you a millionaire? .....because babies cost money....lots and lots of money. Milk is almost as much per gallon as gas....diapers are at least 20 dollars a pop...formula is 100 dollars a case (minimum)......babysitters cost money....babies get sick....doctors cost money....they sleep when they want to...they have to eat every few hours....Dont get me wrong with proper planning, finances, family assistance raising children can be absolutely wonderful....most of the time....but it's not all roses and it's a lot of work. Take your time, life is full of many wonderful opportunities. Try living and being happy it's a great thing.

Answer 9

You're in for a rude awakening if you DO get pregnant. You're in a fantasy right now thinking of all the good things, but just wait until you're stuck in subsidized housing on food stamps. TRUST ME, I've seen friends go down that route. Wait a few years, until you're established.

Answer 10

If you are young you should wait hun maybe it is not your time to have kids right now.do not rush it.wait until you can give the child everything you did not have.Maybe the person you are with is not the right person to be having children with.Everything happens for a reason so just enjoy life awhile.