I was in an 8 year relationship, that I shouldn't have been in...I am wondering did I miss out on what should have been with someone else.
I believe it is unlimited...but the world has changed so much. People are so surface now, and everyone is out for themselves.
2006-07-18 16:58:56 · 22 answers · asked by calibrownie 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
well real love comes with in your self you need to feel your love for you. today when things get to hard to handle we leave it is easier for most then to work it out or to find the reason you are together to be gin with . if you realizes you sole mate is out there they are but we tend to jump for many reasons into relationships and that could go on for ever but nothing in life is meant to last for ever had you really listened to your truee feelings that feeling way down deep in your gut that kept saying I don't think so you would have not bin in this situation but if you stop looking tru love will come if you look for it you will always follow that sexual feeling that we all think is I must be in love chemistry you can have with thousands of people that we feel sincerity with but it doesn't mean it is love love is time less love thy self and all love will come to you .
2006-07-18 17:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by lois k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask u this question: If u are dearlly in love and a man really loves u, but he never crave for u and have no interest in sex, would u be happy and think he really love u?
Got what i mean? Love and lust must coexist. But LOVE comes first..
I don't understand your relationship though.. Are u saying that u are stuck in a relationship for 8 yrs, but u are not supposed to be in? What do u mean? U want to break up but he does not allow? U do not really love him but do not want to give up? Or u are the 3rd party?
2006-07-18 17:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by a V a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It varies from person to person. The way I see it, there are many people who could be "a one" for you, rather than "the one". Maybe there is one person out there who you would be happier with than anyone else, but the truth is that most of us won't meet that person, but will find somebody else with whom we are very much in love and with whom we are very happy.
I think you'll definitely have at least one more chance, although it might take going through a few wrong guys to get to the right one.
2006-07-18 17:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? I don't believe in soulmates or anything. What I believe is: If you want a relationship, find someone who knows the words commitment and compromise. If you and your partner love those words then I assure you that you will be satisfied. You can't find a perfect partner by setting your highest standards. You have to be perfect for him first so that he will be to you too. It means you must know how to adjust to him and he will do the same in order for the relationship to go on smoothly. God bless!!!
2006-07-18 17:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by bLu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel Love is real regardless. If my husband should pass away, would God want me to be alone. I do not think so.
If I died would God want my husband alone, Again I do not think so. You will always love your first mate but you can also fall in love through time with another. So I believe there is more than once or twice for real love..
2006-07-18 17:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you only find real love once. I did I do not think I will ever find it again. It was so special that i can't find anyone who can satifiy me in a relationship. It was love at first sight and it was that once in a life time love. It does happen but it is rare.
2006-07-18 17:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by CHAEI 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get as many chances as you need. Fate and Destiny wouldn't deprive you of the chance of True Love.
When it's real, you'll know.
2006-07-18 17:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think tru luve happens only once in a life time.
though when we fail to persue it we look for other alternatives .
but true luv only happens one i guess somewhere it is pre determined
as in india we say "marraiges are made in heaven and love follows it"
lust happens 4 several time but in true love there is no sole objective of achievin a physical desire
2006-07-18 17:13:25 · answer #8 · answered by rimi j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get one chance at true love or real love if you wanna put it that way, unless destiny decides to allow more chances. So far in my epxeriences all the evidence point sto: ONE CHANCE. So we have to make it our best shot.
2006-07-18 17:02:58 · answer #9 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many chances but there is only one "perfect" for a full, complete and holistic relation.
2006-07-18 17:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by victorino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋