and i missed my period for about 2 weeks a lready... i think im pregnant... what should i do?
2006-07-18 16:48:59 · 41 answers · asked by mizzang3la 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
This is probably a joke, maybe a pathetic attempt for attention (and it worked too). Why do you claim to be 13 in one of your earlier posts? Suspicious. Anyways, if it's true then I feel sorry for you and your boyfriend because your both dumb. You're 12 and had no business having sex. If you thought you were old enough to have sex then you are also old enough to know the consequences and now you have to face them. I guess you should tell your mom, it depends on how she would take it (for example, my parents would have killed me and disowned me). Then you need to talk to some kind of counselor and get help planning for the future. But I wouldn't recommend raising the baby on your own because you're still a baby yourself (even if you might not think so).
2006-07-18 17:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by Peace 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You should go immedietly to your parent/s or another trusted adult and talk with them about this. Your parents may freak out, but they may also be able to help you a lot. You should get a pregnancy test from your local drugstore (or, better yet, your doctor) and take it.
You really should see your doctor, especially if you and your boyfriend haven't been using a condom, because you may have an STD in addition to the possibility of being pregnant. A health care professional can also refer you to counseling if you are indeed pregnant and need to decide if you will abort, give the child up for adoption, or keep it.
In the future, you should wait to have sex until you are more mature. At 12, you are almost definitely under the legal age of consent in your area, and you're also really young to be in such a deep relationship. You've got your whole life ahead of you, hon! That's not to say that you can't have sex (who is anyone to judge another?), but at the very least use a condom and other safe/safer sex practices.
I hope everything turns out well for you.
2006-07-18 16:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by Rat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should take a pregnancy test and if it comes up positive, tell your mom right away or another adult you trust.
At the age of 12 you are still a child yourself and are too young to be having sex--especially unprotected sex.
If you must do have sex, also talk to your mom about getting on some birth control, as well as getting some knowledge about all the diseases there are out there that are very serious.
I hope you realize how serious this really is. It could be life threatning!
2006-07-18 17:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can talk to your parent(s) or guardian, you need to do so as soon as possible. If you are pregnant, you need to go to a doctor as soon as possible. Sweety, you not only need to worry about being pregnant, but also the possibility of having contracted an STD like Herpes.
You are so very young and the trama that your body will go through while being pregnant at such a young age will be great. You need to make sure that you eat correctly, take vitamins and do everything that your doctor tells you to.
If you have not had a frank talk about sex with your parents, you need to do so now.
GOD bless and good luck. I will pray for you!
2006-07-18 16:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by moonlight_is_harmonious_1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk with a parent, or another adult that you feel comfortable talking to. There are also organizations that can help you like Planned Parenthood that you can lookup online to answer questions you may have. It may seem very scary for you if you think you're pregnant, but it isn't the end of the world.
Also, ignore all these people who are cracking jokes like you shouldn't have done it, they're just being jackasses cause you already have done it and you can't go back and change that now. Just take it one step at a time and talk to someone who can help.
2006-07-18 16:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by jfross77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your Mom if you have yours,and you should'nt be having sex at 12 years old! How old is your bf? Don't be in such a hurry to be grownup,enjoy your childhood as long as long as you can! There's plenty of time for sex when you're alot older! You should have your Mom or whoever your guardian is take you to a doctor to be examined and give you a pregnancy test. Please don't have sex anymore til you're old enough to be more responsible and able to work at a job and support a baby! They are not cheap to raise! If you are pregnant,you should consider adoption for the baby!
2006-07-18 16:58:35 · answer #6 · answered by Diana W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok all u freakin mean people... why are u telling her right away to have an abortion? maybe u shud have been an abortion... granted she shud not be having sex @ 12, let her find out if she IS even preggers first... get a test and see.. but u shud tell ur parents its ur body tho so it is UR choice...
AND for all u freakin morons saying she cant raise a kid.. or that it will ruin the childs life... i had my 1st child at 13 1/2 he is now 14 and he is fine... i graduated school an all no ged... so get off ur high horses n let her live her own life.
2006-07-18 17:01:39 · answer #7 · answered by Stupidity Is My Middle Name 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all you hav no business havin sex.... the thing to do is sit and talk wit ur parents cuz a doctor wont test u witout ur parent knowin....if u arent pregnant then thats ur consious telling u that u did sumthin wrong, if u are pregnant i wud hav to say abortion i dont want to say that but that will likely be the solution bcuz a 12 year old does not hav the mature fraction of a grown woman and will cause 10 times as much pain than a regular birth or child will hav a low birth weight depending on wat u eat.... mayb c section it will be yours and ur parents decision so good luck and god bless
2006-07-18 17:08:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No offense but ugh! What do they teach you these days? What's up with 11, 12, 13, 14, and 15 year old girls doing sleeping with guys. You know nothing about life. You're barely grwoing up. That's so degrading specially to someone who's still in middle school, or highschool, with little education and no insight about what life's like.
2006-07-18 17:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by bubbles06031990 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a pregnancy test if you don't want to tell your mom right now and then see...I do not at all advise sex at 12 so maybe this is your bodies way of teaching you a lesson, to scare you..
If the test comes back positive, you need to tell your mom and have a dr. look at you for your health and the babies health.
Please consider adoption if raising a child is not for you right now. But let this be a lesson learned..
2006-07-18 16:54:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋