i made my best friend mad, plz i need advice, how do i get her 2 ,well, not mad at me? i already said sorry alot
2006-07-18 16:31:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
thanx u all helped me
2006-07-18 17:03:20 · update #1
Depends on the situation. You have to give her some time to cool off and see if she wants to talk about what happened in about a week or so.
2006-07-18 16:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by mergirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have to do some soul searching of your own. Did you make her mad on purpose? Was what you said true or was it meant to be nasty? Once you have those answers you have to apologize....BUT....you also have t explain why you did/said whatever it was to upset her....even if it was for selfish reasons. Be honest. Then tell her how very sorry you are and promise never to do it again. See things from her side....try ti understand that she has a right to be mad and she may or may not choose to continue your friendship. Tell her you understand that she needs to do whats best for her. Close with an I love you and a hug. Then give her time to heal if she needs it. Let her know that you will give her space and when she is ready all she has to do is tell you so. You can't rush these things. Everyone handle hurt in a different way. My thoughts are with you. I know how bad it feels when a good friendship is on the rocks....trust me. Take care and I sincerely hope everything works out for you soon.
2006-07-18 16:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by silent.peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you said you are sorry once, you do not need to say it again!
You do not need to do anything! Leave the person alone and if you really care about this person, then be there when she needs you.
Too, it could be that the pain you cause is very deep!
You call her your friend, Friends do not hurt friends!
Trusts are broken when you do that! How do you put back the broken trust?
It seems that everyone likes to use the word friend while having
no real appreciation of what a true friend is.
Here is an example for you: You are on a trip to another country and something happens to you. You call your friend and say, "I need you here to help me." Your friend will not ask you why, what, or say anything! Just what your friend needs to know to get to you! The only thing that will stop this friend from coming is
an unexpected issue in his/her family!
In your life time, you will not need all five fingers to count your friends.
2006-07-18 16:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By your name I can see that you are a Latina. I live in Puerto Rico although I am from St. Louis and am not at all Latin. But I have lived here for 22 years. What I have learned may apply to you. All women here often get mad and say a lot of things but then when they cool down they may say that they're sorry and then everyone forgets about it.
It may not even be a problem. You should just talk to her but if she really is hurt or still really angry, you could sincerely appologize and explain what happened or even give her some candy, flowers or whatever she likes.
If you two really are friends then you can communicate, and you may end up being even better friends.
2006-07-18 16:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Whats Up! Maybe Apologize Again and Say Come On Were Best Friends We Can't Break Apart Like This Or Somthing Catchy
2006-07-19 09:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes if u explain why u did it, or how u feel about it now, that helps. i do that a lot, it seems, it's part of my split personality. i worry about others a lot, but still i can make them incredibly hateful towards me. but, the best thing to do, is to tell her ur sorry. don't apologize in a way that makes her even madder (i did this... wasn't good. i said i only did it because i didn't think she'd realize and that was definitely a bad way to apologize) But, be sure she knows the whole entire story. especially tell her it before someone else does before u. either way, if she truly values your friendship with her, and if ur best friends i'll bet she does, she'll come around, just be sure she knows how sorry u are. good luck!
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2016-10-08 01:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes saying 'sorry' too much will annoy her even more.. just give her the space she needed... and stop trying to explain what's going on or the reason behind it... when everything cools down, just say that it was a mistake that you did... no answer will get you out of it.. so, apologize, and just promise never to do it again..
2006-07-18 16:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by Lina G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was the reason for such anguish? If you are 'best friends' it comes with the territory, Meaning: It is normal, just remember this to shall pass.
2006-07-18 16:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by celtic_irishtwin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then set back and wait nobody likes to be hounded give her some cooling down time its not like you microwaved her cat lol Did you?
2006-07-18 16:36:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋