I got to work with her tonight. Her name is Emily and she is the only one that isn't older than me. I feel like we connected a little bit when we were talking about the restaurant/hotel we work at and how the owner is a real *****, and it's a passive aggressive environment. She smiled at me, but I think it's just because she is sweet. Well, basically I feel like a total scrub and don't ever know what to do with these kind of things ever and need advice.
2006-07-18 16:25:38 · 13 answers · asked by Joe 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
being that you work together you will want to take it slow and just concentrate on the friendship for now. in time you will be more confident and forget about your self-conscious insecure "scrub" feelings and figure out wether your just to be friends or ya wanna date. good luck!
2006-07-18 16:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by beaniefufer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just ask her to hang out one day. Go out and eat at a resturant or go see a movie (as friends just so that things arent akward). When the 2 of you go out you can get to know more about the other and a relationship might develop. Ask her if she has a boyfriend already too because you dont want to be moving in on someone elses girl.
2006-07-18 23:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, be yourself, and express to her how you feel. Tell her that you are in no way pressuring her to feel the same and you wanted to get it off your chest. Good luck but be careful of office romances because if it doesn't work out, it can make things a little awkward and an uncomfortable work environment.
2006-07-18 23:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dats the problem dudes put females on too high of a pedestal. the worse thing she can say is no, or she aint feeling you. But if she keep smiling at the you that aint the case so go head an handle yah buisness........
2006-07-18 23:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by 614Boi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating in the work place can be a tricky thing. Just be sure it's a sure bet before you make any sort of move, you don't want to embarrass yourself and have to see her everyday. Also keep in mind, if you get together, then have a breakup, work could get tense.
2006-07-18 23:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by outlandsishlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to her about different things like the weather, tv shows, music, school - just to get an idea about what she's interested in. She might be shy and that's why she doesn't talk to you. So it's up to you to make the move and try to figure out what she might want to talk about.
2006-07-18 23:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by fran c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with her more and get her to gradually trust you. You'll find out her feelings for you eventually if you befriend her. Don't doubt yourself. Good luck!
2006-07-18 23:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by Kharm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a scrub..Leave her alone until you get a real job..Emily's Father...
2006-07-18 23:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time. Listen to her and be a good friend.
2006-07-19 00:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by Charmaine * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out.
2006-07-18 23:28:13 · answer #10 · answered by Galaxy Defender 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋