I have been emailing my ex-husband but he is not responding, why do you think so?

Question

I have been emailing my ex-husband to send me important documents but he hasn't answered any.

The last time he replied he said he cannot deal with my tantrums.

I find it weird that he would say that, it is he who does not comply to what we have discussed.

He promised to send money for education, send money for operation, help me settle a loan I incurred because of his none support and fix birth registration but none of this has happened. And its been a year of waiting. Who wouldn't be upset?
Now I am being accused of having tantrums and nagging.

I think he is sick in the head for saying that his father or mother has died.
But I need those documents.

I have my own money. The money we are discussing is not for me but for child support.

Does divorce mean - he gets away from all responsibilities? I have been supporting our daughter for the longest time and I believe that he should do his part as her father

That is what I have been saying to him. If you want me out of your life then just do what has to be done to get this over and done with. Not make it so hard. I know this could be done easily

Answer 1

Send him another e-mail saying to either send you the documents or you will hire a lawyer to get them. Wait about a week for a reply. If one doesn't come - hire a lawyer to get the documents.

Answer 2

He probably thought that once you guys got your final paperwork signed, he was done with the relationship. Unfortunately, most divorcees don't understand that just because you're getting divorced, nothing has ended, it's only changed.

You need what you need, he may be 100% correct that you're having "tantrums" over it and he doesn't want to deal with it; again, he thought divorce meant he didn't have to take care of you in any way, but he's finding out different, and he's just burying his head in the sand.

If he's truly your ex-husband, that had to be made official legally, and you still have legal recourse to get what was agreed to. So if I were you, I'd just stop talking to him and get your lawyer back on his case. You're not getting anything else out of him that you aren't willing to make a legal authority go get for you.

Answer 3

send him a certified letter requesting the documents by a certain date and when he does not reply get a lawyer because obviously he is not responding because he is not complying with what needs to be taken care of. He is wrong and he knows it but he won't adimit it because he may be in denyal and i don't know but it might be that he does not have the money to do what you need but neither do you so

Answer 4

I have lost count number of ways many various approaches I have tried to describe this to you. because you're nevertheless asking a similar question, i will assume you probably did not comprehend any of the solutions to procure. So i will save this short and straightforward. Your husband is a cheater. continuously has been, continuously will be. Why? because you're a doormat.

Answer 5

Because he is your ex and doesn't want you bothering him.

Sounds to me like you are harassing him. If you really need the documents, contact the originator for copies and stop bugging the poor man for money go out and earn some for yourself.

You sound very whiney to me so he's probably tired of hearing it. Is that why he's your ex?

Answer 6

You need to get an lawyer involved with this, not just yourself, if a professional is involved he is most likely to respond back. If you have his phonenumber or home address, write to him or have your lawyer write to him concerning those important documents that you are trying to retrieve. That really is the only other way of getting them.

Answer 7

I think that he is being immature and doesn't want to deal with reality. Keep on him and maybe he'll get so tired of heariing from you that he'll give you what you need. You should start calling him at home and at work and whatever it takes to get the documents that you need. Good luck.

Answer 8

if you don't have any of his promises in writing, there's really nothing u can do


you can take him to court if you have the documents (well you can take him to court if you DONT have the documents, but you probably wont win).

He probably just wants to start a new life or something after the divorce



sorry to hear about your divorce, btw ='(

Answer 9

Well I don't talk to my ex either....there is a reason they are ex's...if he wont pay child support...go to the child support office in you ares and THEY WILL GET IT...any other legal documents you need your attorney should have don't deal with him anymore

Answer 10

there is no documents that i know of that you would need that there are not copies of in the county court house, ssa, army hall of records, ect. ect. my point is you are never given the only copy of any document, look around at what ever record center the document has to do with and they will have copy(master).