Ive always been hurt..abused and used...guys say they wont hurt me and they turn around and do..ive been dating a guy for a week now and we have gone thur more shyt this week than a couple could go thru in a month...he hasnt left me yet..is he the rite one?? if so how do i know??
2006-07-18 16:01:18 · 7 answers · asked by BedTymeBear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
A good test to see if he's worth it is take him someplace where you like to go but where he doesn't. If he puts up with that then he has potential.
2006-07-18 16:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by Blue_Falcon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man that can face the history you're bringing into the relationship and treats you right (as in sticking by your side) is worth the effort. As far as is he the right one, no one can answer that but you. How will you know? Well that's easy. Does he treat you the way you deserve and want to be treated? Is he there for you when you need him? Although I have to say 1 week really isn't a lot to go on and you might be jumping in a little soon (that's just my opinion). I think if you answer those questions with a positive response, then you owe it to yourself to slow down a little and see where this goes.
2006-07-18 23:06:17 · answer #2 · answered by tinydancer42001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dint think there is a way to tell after one week but if you really care about yourself then you wouldn't let him use you and respect yourself to not go that far that quick get some counseling and break the trend of abuse before you grow older and pass it on when you have children because when kids see you act in this manner it is often passed on as habit
2006-07-18 23:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by i love my dog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the right guy for you is hard to find right now because true love can wait.You are now in relationship try not to have sex with him and just be a simple girl these days and proved to your bf that your a perfect girl for him.try to tell your bf that if he really love you he must wait for the right time both of you get each other he must respect you as a girl.
2006-07-18 23:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by markey10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think that there is any way to tell after only a week. Give it some more time and see how it goes. Listen to your gut instinct, if it says it's not right then it's not.
2006-07-18 23:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its true..ive been abused and used as well..everybody says they wont hurt you but you always end up gettin hurt in a relationship..so you've been datin this guy for a week..it depends wat hes doin to you do you think its right..hes not the one if its been a week and hes treatin you badly..
2006-07-18 23:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wuold make him prove it
2006-07-18 23:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by abitachick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋