I've know her for 13 years she's 20 and I'm twenty three. She's been like my little sister, our mother are even best friends. I've been through everything I mean everything, first kiss, first time and everything you could imagine. She left to go to college and she doesn't call, I call her she acts as if she doesn't want to be bothered. Like she lost her baby last year and I wanted to be there, but I couldn't because how she was acting. I'm getting married and I want her to be there, but I'm not sure.
2006-07-18 15:50:48 · 5 answers · asked by niecy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes, definitely talk to her and tell her how you're feeling. She needs to know if there is any possibility to salvage your friendship and I think it's worth it to try. I hope she hears you and realizes what a great friend you are. Good luck.
2006-07-18 15:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by applecheeks 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like there still may be some unresolved issues with her losing her baby and you not being there. Instead of calling, try writing her a heartfelt letter to express your need to talk with her one on one and then make a date with her. Use that time to talk through any issues you or she may have.
Sounds like you two have a deep history together and I wouldn't just give that up...having a friend for that long makes them feel like family....you wouldn't give up on your family, right?
Be sure when you right the letter to not sound angry or accusatory...keep it neutral and heartfelt.
2006-07-18 16:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by AverageMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how that feels and it hurts,especially you have been through all that you have been through together.
It is hard to say what changes people
Maybe you should try inviting her to your wedding. If she does not take interest then you know where you truly stand with her.
Hang in there. Good luck to you and congratulations on your upcoming wedding! :)
2006-07-18 15:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend about the situation and tell her how you feel. There's nothing a good talk can't solve. Invite her to your wedding and make sure to tell her how much it would mean if she came.
2006-07-18 15:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** her ! u didnt come in this world wit friends and u aint leavin with none move on !!!!!!!!!!!!! friends come and go and so do men!!!
2006-07-18 15:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anthonys Wifey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋