What things need to be done for a baby in the first year?

Question

I know it needs fed every 2 hours for a little while, and it needs regular check ups, things liek that, but are there things that i need to know before i get a day job, or something? i need to know what a baby needs every day. hold the insults to a minimum i didnt have sex with my boyfriend we got really unlucky and pre-ejac somehow got me pregnant, im 16 hes 15 and we need alot of help... weve aquired some information about first year costs but i think theres something missing

Answer 1

What I would stress to you is that babies need love, love, love! As such young parents, you must realize that anything that your baby does that is annoying (throwing up, making messes in the crib if a diaper leaks, crying, etc.) is normal!! You must develop patience and try to take things in stride (in other words, don't react in an angry manner if the baby spits up on your nice shirt). Don't yell at or shake your baby. You are the most important people in your child's world and he/she needs to know you are sensitive to him/her and will always be there to love and comfort him/her. Each baby is different. There is no "right" age for crawling, walking, or any of those milestones. A baby loves colors. Put a mobile over the crib. Babies love music. Get a rattle or toy which makes sounds. Talk to your baby. Babies love to look at your face. They need to be held. There is no such thing as "spoiling" a baby at that age. Don't believe people who say to just let the baby lie in the crib and cry 'til it stops. That is neglect. Crying always has a reason, and with time you should be able to distinguish a "hungry" cry, or a "sleepy" one or one that means the baby is wet, or hurts, etc. Make sure never to leave the baby in the car even for a second. Make sure if you take the baby out in the sun to protect its head and face. Babies sunburn so easily! Pick up a book on the baby's first year at a used bookstore or the library. That first year is so important. Remember that you are parents now and that the baby comes first! Don't resent the child; he/she didn't ask to be born. You both created that child and are responsible for it and its well-being. That is the most important fact to remember. Your lives will change dramatically. You can no longer just run out to see a movie, or party, or any of those "fun" things that teens do. Will you have any adult support, emotionally or financially? That is important. Seek out adults you trust who are non-judmental. Parenting is not easy even at a much older age, and at your age it will be harder. Try really hard to be the absolute best parents you can be. That will pay off in the end! Take really good care of yourself during the pregnancy. No drinking, drugs, sleep as much as you can. Eat well. Before you get a job, make sure you have decent child care. Make sure that the baby will be safe. Never leave the baby with someone you don't know well or have any doubts about. A baby is a precious gift and you want to make sure to treasure it (even 'tho the circumstances of the pregnancy are not ideal). Once you understand your lives will change and have some idea of what those changes will be, just try to relax and not worry too much! Don't give the baby grapes, nuts, honey, little hard candies, or any foods that can cause choking. Don't put pillows or heavy blankets in the crib. Don't let the baby sleep on its stomach. Don't put it to bed with a bottle; that can rot its teeth (really--the teeth are already under the gums and will appear later, but are still subject to decay). Don't give it a lot of sweet sugary drinks like juice or soda. Don't just stick a pacifier in its mouth and think that will make the baby content. It is your job to stimulate the baby mentally, visually, verbally. Don't be a lazy parent. Enough said. Good luck!!

Answer 2

Wow you guys do need a lot of help if you are both only 16 and 15.
Pre-ejac can cause pregnancy, its not bad luck, you shouldnt have been messing that much.

That being said: babies are a lot of work. In the first year, they need a lot of time and attention more than anything else. They need regular medical check ups and immunizations. You could probably get free or discounted shots at the state health dept. Also check if you are eligible for the WIC (women infants and children) program. They give you coupons for food so that the pregnant mother and the breastfeeding mother and the infant get proper nutrition. You should really try to breastfeed, not only will it save you tons of money on formula, it is also best for your child and your health.

If you are going back to work soon after delivery, you will need to buy a breastpump so you can pump your milk that someone else can give the baby while you are work. Besides that, babies will usually start on baby food at around 6 months. There are diaper costs and carseats and strollers and crib. Thats all i can think of.

Answer 3

Are you pregnant? If so I wish you luck, honey, you are going to need it. Every baby is different, some are laid back and some or whinny or fussy. They will need diapers and wipes and toys, and a crib and bottles, and formula and the list goes on and on. You are so young. Can either of your parents help out? If not, go to your state for assistance.

Answer 4

I'm not even going to ask how you didn't have sex and he just so happen to pre-ejaculate and get you pregnant. Children should be educated more in sex and then these problems wouldn't occur. And we wouldn't have children having children.
Any-who here's a website that can help you with everything you need http://www.childdevelopmentinfo.com/parenting/taking_care_of_baby.shtml