i send a forge email to my hubby saying that i know he's having an affair with other woman. he try to investigate n if he find out, i was me who set up the email, he'll leave me..(divorce).. waht shoul i do? should i tell him the truth?
2006-07-18 15:48:59 · 25 answers · asked by saxylongleg 1 in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet
Just be honest!!!
2006-07-18 15:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by lkk_04_04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should try to trust your husband more and not do that, unless you have clues or proof that he's having an affair. But since you can't go back in the past, I'd say you should be honest with him. A healthy relationship requires honesty. If you don't have trust as husband and wife, what do you have? Talk to him and try to work things out. Express your concern, and make sure to apologize about the e-mail. Let's hope he's NOT having an affair. If he is, don't be easy on him; you know what to do.
2006-07-18 15:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by Gloria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all dear, I am confused! Why are you so afraid about your hubby finding out that you wrote the mail? Isn't he really having an affair? If so, then why are afraid of him? He should be afraid of you.
But, if he isn't having any affairs and you wrote that mail just to check/bug him.....then tell him that you are sorry, it was just a jock.
Now there is one more question, are you afraid of him? Is he a very angry type of person? If that's the case, then I suggest you to talk with him, but may be not alone so that he can't hurt you. I think you know what i mean........wishing you all the best!
2006-07-18 15:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by Farah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only tell him the truth if he asks. You have a trust issue which may or may not be true. You should see a counciler both by yourself & with him. If he is having an affair, he's not going to tell the truth unless he wants a divorce.
2006-07-18 15:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by pmz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you confront him or not is your decision to make. Either way you risk him finding out. Which way would he perceive is honest on your part since you are accusing him of infidelity. You should also make sure you have your facts (proof) before you accuse him. Often people deny the charge against them. If he does this what will you do then. On the other hand if he admits the affairs then what will you do. You have to be prepared for anything.
2006-07-18 15:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by slim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is having an affair then if he divorces you better for you. If you dont have a profile under your falso email addy there is no way he can find out it as you. He should come clean if he is and not be sneaky
2006-07-18 15:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by stormyheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, that was kind of a backwards way to go about it. If he is cheating, you should leave him. but first tell him that you know! And if he's not, then it was just stupid. So you should tell him the truth, and hope that he won't divorce you over such a small thing. he's you're husband, not your father!
2006-07-18 15:52:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's cheating on you anyways then who cares if he divorces you. Have some confidence in yourself. Don't accept anything lesss of someone to love you and only you! Easily said than done though, I know!
2006-07-18 15:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by lees girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not know if you chose the sign in names wisely.
IF you used your home computer, please delete all previous history and never open the account using that computer. He might install a keystroke program which will record all the information being typed and this way he will catch you. This happened to me a while back.
2006-07-18 15:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by LEONARD K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the truth before it's to late.
2006-07-18 15:51:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u know for a fact that he is cheating on u why would u even want him?? as for me..i wouldnt tell him let him try to find out...but i think i would have been long gone if i knew my hubby cheated on me
2006-07-18 15:53:30 · answer #11 · answered by Starbright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋