This isnt me. My husband's ex tricked him twice and she now has a one month old baby by another guy she tried to trap.
She had assured my husband she was using birth control on both pregnancies. He started out trusting her and she lied. He didnt know with the 1st pregnancy that she had deceived him. She told me that after I first met her. She was bragging "that she got pregnant to make him marry her". (We all worked for the same company.) She doesnt really want the kids, except for the child support, she puts them in daycare 12 hrs a day even on her off days.
2006-07-18 15:47:30 · 19 answers · asked by lilmissy 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well I have to think that she is a very vindictive person from the sounds of it. Using children as pawns and weapons are not good for no parties involved. Just think she will reap what she sews.
2006-07-18 15:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by inmybiz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that is one of the worst things a women can do. I would suggest to go to court see if your husband can win custody.....Its said for people to expect daycare teachers to raise there kids (worked at a daycare and seen first hand parents that would drop off first thing in the morning and not pick up until almost time to close). There is nothing wrong with daycare but those teachers are not there mothers/fathers so its really not fair to the kids. Anyway good luck it will probably be along journey with this lady
2006-07-18 15:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by ga_lynn84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have little sympathy for either, sex with out love always comes with a price. He should have used protection. If it is a long term monogamous relationship maybe you could put some trust in another, but he should have protected himself. If she was planning this it would not have worked if he was thinking with the brain and did the next best thing to saying NO, PROTECTION. Failing all that learn from this, kids need two parents who love each other that is their right. He has a child so focus on the good that came out of this bad experience. Take Care ~A~
2006-07-18 15:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by momsapplepeye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do YOU care? Did you get your husband while he was with his ex? If so, expect that he is the trickable kind. If you got him by default it is probably just a matter of time before the next woman will take him from you. He's Nomadic.
Otherwise, it seems you are too chummy with this ex. 12 hour day care? Seems very expensive and almost unbelievable. In any case it isn't your business. Be nice to your stepchild and steer clear of this ex unless conversations directly concern the care of the child in your home for visitation. Let it be limited to instructions about diet, medication, activities that the child will engage in that may cause concern, period.
Get a life with your husband and leave this woman alone. She is toxic and you sound like a toxic waste dump with all these gossipy details. STOP IT!
2006-07-18 15:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think she is a bad woman. Defective in the head. You know what? I am in the same situation. This happened to me 20 1/2 years ago.Well what I did was marry the girl because i know the responsibilty is mine also . He is now a junior in college and guesse what? i am still paying. I have to say that it has been bad times for me and some good. I do know this . My son is no bastard ,and he will know that a man will take care of his responsibilties no matter what. By the way. I am always mad at my wife for this ,but it has not been in vain. Yes we are still together because thier are 2 other kids that I really did want. Kinda wierd ,but it is true. all you fellas out thier be a man and take care of your children.
2016-03-26 23:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those poor children being in day care for 12 hours. I would call CPS and tell them about this. Maybe they can remove the children and place them with their fathers or grandparents or even someone who will love them, bond with them and take care of them... She will get her day and I feel sorry for her. A lady who gets pregnant to trap a man has no confidence in herself, has psychological problems and needs some self esteem. Pray for her...
2006-07-18 15:55:05 · answer #6 · answered by mysticmoonprincess01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is bullsh**. She really needs to grow up,because one of these days she going to mixed up with wrong person and something bad is going to happen. Your husband may want to think about a DNA test to see if the those kids r his.
2006-07-18 16:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by wcoit1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man can't be trapped into getting someone pregnant unless he was drugged and she took advantage of his unconsciousness to get semen. A man who has sex with a woman usually is well aware that pregnancy is possible and, without protection, probable.
2006-07-18 15:52:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I hate these women. They get a hold of a few guys and give us all a bad name and make men think we are all deceitful and pathetic! I wish this kind of thing was illegal.
2006-07-18 17:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by Queen D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This lady is embarrassing me. Seriously. Shes giving good women a bad name.
2006-07-18 15:55:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋