My bf is 17 same as me. He asked me to have sex with him several times but idk if I should. He'll wear a codom is should I?
Also do I need to get a pelvic exam before or after I have sex?
2006-07-18 15:47:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
To me it sounds like your not ready to be doing anything.
Go to a family planning clinic in your home town (both of you go).
Birth control is a two way street.
Do you really want to lose your virginity so young?
2006-07-18 16:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by Ontario_Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are both a little young to have sex right now. Even if he does wear a condom, there could be a possibility that you could end up pregnant. If this is something you both want, then I would talk it over with the parents and let them know what you are planning. Both sets of parents will probably be upset over the decision, but at least they wont be shocked when you tell them. Again, just think this out thoroughly and make sure it's want YOU want!
2006-07-18 23:12:44 · answer #2 · answered by Dorah C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you're not ready, then you really need to wait. Love can wait 5 years, lust can't wait 5 minutes. There is nothing wrong with you waiting to have sex until you're married. If you do decide to have sex, then insist that he wears a condom. No condom, no sex. You don't know who's he slept with in the past. You won't need to have a pelvic exam unless you have unprotected sex and he gives you a disease. Please reconsider this......take your time with your decision. Best of luck to you.
2006-07-18 23:43:12 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young,... you need to value your virginity because guys wont... dont do it... If your boy friend really loves you.. he will respect your decision... if he doesnt well, at least you will know that all he wanted was to sleep with you and did you end up being smarter than him..... take in account how long have you been with him... a year and 1/2 is probably good if you feel ready.. in your place. I would not do it.... because when you are older you can say you only slept with one.... if u sleep with many.... [meaning that you dont know if u are gonna marry this boyfriend].... u gonna be considered a sl*t...a sl*t is not what a girl of ur age wants to be known as... think really good about this
ITS your choice..
BUT Think it throuroughly
2006-07-18 23:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 17, finish college, get a job, enjoy life and wait for your bf to ask you to marry him! then have sex as many times as you both want!
2006-07-19 02:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're ready, then go for it but be fully ready for getting pregnant, even condoms are not 100% effective.
If you don't think you're ready, don't do it, if your bf is really a good bf, he will wait.
2006-07-18 22:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by Miley#1Fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT TILL MARRiAGE!!!!TRUST ME! its totaly worth the wait! don't do it bc that could be all he wants out of you then take off.it just recitenly happened to my bff and she thought he loved her. she learned her lesson. save yourself for your husband.he'll appreciate it if you do.
2006-07-19 00:09:26 · answer #7 · answered by Lexie Lou <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋