I knew you guys would be nice enough to help me out:)
What is the BEST thing to SAY when you decide to GET IN TOUCH with your EX again after 2 years?? Last time I knew he had a girlfriend..I still like him so my intentions are to be friends first and than maybe take it to the next level...I know that ex's are ex's for a reason BUT he is different. I know he is special. The problem is I don't know how to start talking to him again. ANY ideas?!Thanks everyone!
Note: I ask the same question in multiple sections because I like to get A LOT of opinions so please don't think I am crazy :))lol
2006-07-18 15:42:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't try and be sly or play any "I'm just fine" games. Let him know yopu are thinking about him and miss him so he will know your intentions. The impression he has of you is that you are not interested! Remember this and make it clear.
you gave me a great responce and I think you should just realize that he might miss you too and would love to hear from you.
you will have to be friends first bc that is what you are right now.
Do not doubt your heart and tell him the truth. It doesn't matter if he is in a relationship right now. This is between you and him and if he is in a relationship then he will let you know and deal with it.
honesty will never hurt you.
Lies will always hurt you.
Your heart never lies!
Follow your heart and start living your life!
justin
2006-07-18 17:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by sandpeople_1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure the first thing you say is something funny. If you're both laughing by the time you start the conversation, it's my belief that you can talk to him about anything.
2006-07-19 12:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by 1/6,833,020,409 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think honestly is the best policy, say you miss him as a friend. Although I think there is some forecasting in your question.. He is and ex for a reason.
2006-07-18 22:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound young ; my advise is ; move on ,find a new love, the world is full of new people to find and maybe be enchanted with or just enjoy meeting. moving forward is always healthier
2006-07-18 23:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by pahump1@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call and tell him who it is and ask how he's been doing. Tell him you were just thinking about him and wondered how he was doing. Ask him about where he's working, ask about his girlfriend, you know just start talking.
2006-07-18 22:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make it seem like hes just another guy in your life start by getting together, out to lunch or something. or call him see if hes available then get together.
2006-07-18 22:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by jayda619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋