if there was this boy who always made fun of you ,was always rude toward you and hummilated you in public , and one day he despiratly needed your help. not for something between life or death. but something he will never live down. who you help him or let him suffer like he did you?
2006-07-18 15:40:08 · 11 answers · asked by nikki -nicole 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
THIS DID NOT HAPPEN TO ME!!!!
i just put it there to see the the responses
it didn't really happen.
2006-07-19 06:01:13 · update #1
Help him. Remember the golden rule. God will bless you for it.
2006-07-18 15:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see why this is hard for you...if he can get someone else to help him, say no, because why go to the person who they humiliated and was rude to? If you are the only one AND he apoligized, you should think about it. Also, it will make you look like a better person and you may not be able to forgive yourself if you're that kind of person (and I know a lot of people like that).
It might be good to help him because he could become a good friend one day, and whether or not he shows it, he would be thankful for your help.
....Then again, if it's something that will put yourself at risk, really consider not doing it.
I hope this helped--a lot of people like my advice. This was a tricky one, but I figured it out. I think it may have been better if you had said what kind of help he needed, and maybe how he asked for this help. Maybe you should add that to your details.
-Jessica
2006-07-18 23:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. You either A: Let him suffer because he has made fun of you and been really rude and revenge can be sweet or you B: Be the mature one and help him out because you do not want to stoop to his level and it'll make you feel good about yourself knowing your not at all like he is. Good Luck:)
2006-07-18 22:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by Katie Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would help. Simply because to make a friend sometimes you have to be one. Unfortunately this boy has made this something you probably desire not to do. On the other hand, he has had to humble himself to ask you to help him. That is really reaching out, knowing in his mind what he has put you through. Also another thing to keep in mind is, question everything. Is this boy asking your help to set you up in some cruel way. It is sad that I have to tell you to ask yourself this but in this boys case, you never know.
2006-07-18 23:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him suffer since it is not a do or die situation.
2006-07-18 22:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by prcsdime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably help, just to show him you're the better person.
Who knows--maybe with your help, he will change his ways...
2006-07-18 22:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ ☆ StarLiteGrl~98☼1 ☆ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes cuz its the right thing to do and u might just get another friend out of it
2006-07-18 22:43:55 · answer #7 · answered by scuba steve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confucius say: Do unto others what you want others do unto you!For better emphasis, Do not do to others what you don't want others do unto you. Go figure!
2006-07-18 22:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by cellm8te 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not help him, but if it was a girl then I would think about it.
2006-07-18 22:46:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
help him hoping he would learn from the experience....
2006-07-19 05:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by werewolfpixie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋