I found out that my friend slept with my boyfriend what should i do?

Question

Should I stay with my boyfiend? Should I still be friends with her? What should I do?

Answer 1

First of all she's not your friend cause she knew that he was your boyfriend and Second He don't care about you if he can't keep his stuff in his pants. He is not worthy of being with you or even in your presents. Kick them both to the curb you can find better. You deserve to have a man treat you as the QUEEN that you are and a friend to tresure your friendship.

Answer 2

The same thing happened to me. My best friend slept with my ex-husband during our divorce....I decided after taking some time to get over it that he was a jerk anyway and had slept with half the town so I decided the friend was worth more in the long run. She is still my best friend and nothing ever happened like that between us again. Friends for 14 years this month. He is obviously a loser to sleep with your friend in the first place. Guys are a dime a dozen but best friends don't come along every day. Good Luck...

Answer 3

I for sure would get rid of my boyfriend because once he cheated he will continue to cheat and if you kept him then he will know that he can do it again and you won't do anything about it.

Your friend, you two need to sit down and talk and find out how it all got started. She may lie and she may not but I wouldn't trust her again for a long time. She will have to earn it back. If she messed up again in whatever is going on between you two and before you start to trust her again then I would let her go. It is possible that she is using you.

So, be careful and protect your heart, be strong, and expect the unexpected. You are giving her a second chance to prove that she is your friend and always has been.

Answer 4

if you think your friendship with your friend is worth saving have a long heart to heart and find out why she did it. if then and only then you believe deep down in your heart without a doubt that she will not betray your trust again go ahead and continue the friendship. no questions asked you should get answers from him as well but this is a hard one maybe the same thing i said about your friend can be applied to him as well but if you get a bad vibe from either one dump them both and start from stratch b/cuz you dont need this in your life.

Answer 5

the question is if you choose your bestfriend will she do the same thing again or can you find it in your heart to forgive her how did it happen are you going to to feel the same way about the friend ship meaning that you cant confide in her about your boyfriend again is that level of trust stillgoing to be there and if you choose your boyfriend will you guy will be agruing over problem constanly will you able to forgive or will he do it again or you going to feel insercure when you see the two of them talking these are some of the issue you will have to deal with figure it out and you will known the answer can you live with what you know are it going to tear you down slowing spending endless nigth crying can you deal withthat.

Answer 6

Dump them both! Its so disrespectful to you for them to have done that! Neither has any type of morals!!! This happened to me my first year of college it was my friend from middle school. She slept with my boyfriend! He said he did it because I wouldnt sleep with him, and I was too slow sexually! After I told her I was going to stomp her in the ground!!! I dumped them both with no regrets!!! She called me years later to apologize, and wanted to be friends again! H...............NO! But I did forgive her! She told that he had given her several STD's and got her pregnant and denied it! Thank God it wasn't me I said!!!! And he end up being a LOSER always between jobs! So, keep your head up God may be saving you from something!!!!!! But don't go backwards!!!!! Always go forward!

Answer 7

Dump them both. your friend was a traitor for doing as she did. She has no respect for you and neither did your boyfriend.
That is so low! I am sorry you have to go through that heartache.

Answer 8

Okay...listen you should be angry with both of them...it takes two people to do that and if she was really ur friend she wouldnt have done that to you and if he really cared about u he wouldnt have done that to you...you should and have the right to be angry with both parties and niether can say anything to this...

Answer 9

move on girl live is more than u think!
open your eyes and see the positive in live then u can find a man HOWCAN MAKE U FEEL GOOD

Answer 10

dump your boy friend and talk to your friend and find out why she did that and then you can decide if you want to keep your friend