Theres this guy i really like, and i think he likes me back. were good friends, and if he doesnt like me, and i tell him, we could lose our friendship!!!! i wanna tell him, but i dont know how. and hes only here 4 the summer, so if i dont tell him, i might never c him again!!!!!!
2006-07-18 15:31:56 · 27 answers · asked by Maggieee:] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
BTW: im only 11, so im a little 2 young 2 flirt.
I am going to tell him....but how do I tell him?
2006-07-20 16:47:36 · update #1
Just tell him. Simple as that. If you don't do anything, you will always wonder what if....and have regrets. If he doesn't "like" you back, well at least you know. I don't think it would ruin your friendship. Most guys are flattered when girls like them.
Just do it sister!
Good luck! Keep us posted.
2006-07-18 15:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by Left Footed 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I know!!! If I were you i would tell him but at the same time i wouldn't tell him!!! confusing................i know!!! Let me explain, you have FLIRT a little........ say something like....... hey that shirt really brings out your eye's!!!! Complement him a lot but try to not over lode so he really knows you like him because maybe he won't and you'll feel really dumb around him!!! Give it some time and never rush things!! I know this advice is mostly used by guy for a girl but who said you can't use it on guy's!!!! Also ask him who he likes or if he likes someone! He'll probably say "oh, no one". Always smile at him and if he smiles at you too a lot that's a sign that he really likes you!!!!! You can always tell someone likes by their smile and eye's!!!! Don't give up!!! I'm sure he really likes you!! And i mean if he doesn't what will you lose??? Nothing! And even if he likes you what will you gain, i mean you said he's only staying here for the summer but a little crush for a couple of month's won't hurt!!!! I wish you the best!!!
2006-07-18 22:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by AtreyuRoxs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem, just drop ALOT of hints and be very nice to him, finnaly, hel'l get the courage to ask you if you wanna go out from there do what your heart tells you, and IF you break up dont end it with a fight just talk about it and say " i just think its best for our friendship" that is what i did and we're still best friends
2006-07-18 22:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him and you guys are good friends then most likely you guys can stay that way, since he might like you back just take the chance before he leaves after summer.
2006-07-18 22:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should tell him girl. U got nothing to loose. If u dont tell him, u will always wonder in the future what might have happened if u told him. Go ahead girl, if u need more help talk to me
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2006-07-18 22:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony4Christ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he will remember you after the summer's over. If he says yes, smile and say you'll remember him too and that you can't wait to see him next year. That should get the point across without risking losing his friendship.
2006-07-18 22:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww..there there.
Well, if you're really nervous- but yet he's a friend of yours, act natural, he's your friend! [It's not like he's some random boy who passes by you during periods at school so you don't know him.]
ANYWAY- just be yourself, and maybe state out a few hints like.. place your hand on his shoulder when you talk *Snortgiggle* Or like..just give him nice smiles, and then just say "...is it okay if I tell you something?" THEN BOOOMMM! You're off!!!
2006-07-18 22:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by bilbobagginz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you like him. There's no sense is delaying if you're only postponing the inevitable or prolonging finding out he does care. Find out what it there and either pursue or move on.
2006-07-18 22:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him. Words are just words. Besides, you don't want to risk your friendship. Do like the song says. Laugh just a little too loud. Stand just a little too close. Stare just a little too long.
2006-07-18 22:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by David 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You go up to him and be like hey babe wuts up i hella like u, wanna go out? I don't think you would loose your freindship he would just be like uhhh no or YES lol. So no worries just tell him you will feel so much better
2006-07-18 22:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋