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Question

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What is the BEST thing to SAY when you decide to GET IN TOUCH with your EX again after 2 years?? I need ideas! Thanks everyone!

Note: I ask the same question in multiple sections because I like to get A LOT of opinions so please don't think I am crazy :))lol

Answer 1

well, first you should take a hard look at what are your motives for doing this? want to reconsile? well you broke up for a reason, take a long hard look at that. What has changed? Are u just lonely and don't know where to turn for companionship? than this is probably not a good idea at all and try to seek support from the people in ur life or go get social and meet new people. do u just need to get some things of ur chest? write a letter in your diary one that empowers you but is honest enough to make you feel better, and never send it. whatever u do , do what is best for you, be honest and be ready to accept whatever reaction you may get. 2 years is a lot of time and people can change dramatically in that amount of time, be prepared for that. Be realistic and honest, to him and to yourself. Accept responsibility for your actions but don't degrade your self or put yourself down, that way no matter what the responce, you can still feel like you have some dignity.

Answer 2

I am an expert, I just recently got in touch with an ex that I hadn't spoken to in 7yrs. I sent him an email, I found his address without him knowing. I just said, Hi and I have been thinking about you and I was just wondering how you have been. (Oh and I threw in something personal that I remembered about him from way back then) like hows your brother, or are you still working or doing whatever it is he does hobbies ect...you get the idea. He ended up driving out to see me from another state, and we reconnected but decided to just be friends now, long distance ect.
but it's nice to have him in my life again.

Answer 3

First of all, there is probably a reason that he is your ex. My opinion is MOVE ON. I would not even think about getting back in touch with my ex. And now, Im happily engaged!

Answer 4

This depends upon the circumstances..and I don't have enough
info to give you my advice in the best possible way...but simply
put...just call him up and ask him if he'd like to go have breakfast
or lunch ...just cut to the chase and simply say...
how about we meet up for lunch today....don't waste your time
if he makes excuses that he can't...he will make time (like either
that day or the next) to see you if he wants it as badly as you do

Answer 5

mm depends. you didnt specify if you like him. assuming you do, say you were wondering how he's been and that it's been a while. maybe you miss him. be nice and sweet so he knows your intentions.

other than that just be yourself ask when hes free so you guys can hang out.

good luck.

Answer 6

ummmm why do you want to go there????? they are called X's for a reason.... i think it is just that you are not totaly over him and you just want to see if he is the same..... dont do it keep moving on and one day you will find the person who will never make you think of him again

Answer 7

Call them and say Hi, I was thinking about you and wanted to see how you are doing.

Answer 8

coming from a guy: talk about something he likes (interest,etc) don't mention anything bout the past! say to him that you just called him because you suddenly remembered him it will make him melt! my present girlfriend did that to me! and obviously,it's effective!

Answer 9

say,hey do you want to meet your daughter? lol

I have no idea, it depends on how you left the relationship.
if it was good then call him up and act like a friend.
if it was bad call to make amends.

Answer 10

HI
I had a dream about you is everything OK?
Act like you are worried about him