not to offend anyone, but girls (even me) can be so mean sometimes!!! we gossip, we humiliate, not all of us. does anyone thinl that girls should change and not care so much about looks? more on personality adn feelings? guys what do you think?
2006-07-18 15:20:58 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That's why I only have one female friend. Besides that, my best friend is my boyfriend, and my closest friend is like a brother to me. The female friend I can go to for all sorts of different issues, and we're not the type of females that only care about style and dieting or any of that stuff that only wastes our time. Relationships are different for eveybody.
2006-07-18 15:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think young girls and even older women have no choice really with all the mags showing pics of all the celebs under weight. And showing all the women that look good. You never see a women with afew curves.
I think ladies should not care. I have to admit i have hurt alot of people by saying silly little things. Everyone gossips including men, my partner does it everyday of the week, i think it is alright as long as you trust the person ur saying it to.
2006-07-18 15:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by KLAS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yesssss! Girls are especially good at forming cliques to torture the lives of the "lesser valued girls" which should not take part in this human society.. it happens in elementary, middle, and high school.. and then it goes on as we get older. Women are just as bad as us teenage girls sometimes.. (not all the time..) but in general girls have way different minds then guys when it comes to our social lifes... some girls have it worse than others though.. like in Mean girls the plastics are a perfect example. its terrible how so many girls put themselves over other girls... and look down on them. I agree with you, as you can see. Hope this helped. Good luck!
2006-07-18 15:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man i cant tell u how much i wish the world would work that way...and ur right no offense taken us girls are evil...and i think its because we are constanty in competition with each other because we think that guys are as shallow as we are so we assume that if we arent better looking or whatever than the girls around us we arent going to get the man we want...its all a big circle of crap but thats the way the world works...but if guys would all just stop talking about how hot girls are and started talking about personalities we might not be as quick to assume what they want
2006-07-18 15:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by pezilove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are young, but maybe as old as 30. I remember being that dumb, oops I mean young. sorry but I passed up some very nice men because they were not perfect in looks, I married a man whom I thought to be hot, I had my children with him. looks was all he had and good sex, now we are divoriced and I am sad that he is so selfish and still has a hold on me. I am lonely and cant seem to move on. I blame it on the good sex we still have, we live in seprate houses I have the kids he pays good child support and pays for anything I want or need, but I am missing the loving relationship I see others have. all because I wanted the guy with the looks. we look good together but I am lonely. I am starting to wise up though,.
2006-07-18 17:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AGREE i think women to grow up all the way around guys go thru hell trying to keep them happy, they are finee one day and a total ***** the next, maybe all guys should turn gay for awhile and let women go without their little guy they can control like a toy, then maybe they would come off their high horse and treat their man as good as he treats her, i'll bet if a woman had to bust her a$$ to get a man the world would be alot different.
2006-07-18 15:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by citisat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll i have had many a relationships where i have gone for the princess... shoeaholic... shopping mall.. cliche girl and all the girls i have had have been so fake and pretentious... so i have no longer sought after these girls and am now engaged to the most beautiful person (and she has the looks to boot) she is from the philippines and she does not expect anything from me except my love and devotion in which she will always have
hope that helps... stop being so fake and just be a person who cares and and not so shallow and you might just start getting somewhere
2006-07-18 15:26:47 · answer #7 · answered by mr_magoo797 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I work in a small office with two chicks and all they do is gossip, worry about how they look, and be mean to others so I really don't think you girls will ever change.
2006-07-18 15:25:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is natual for girls to be into themselves and to talk about other people. It is a gender flaw. I have found that I have gotten much better about it over the years. I think high school is the peak of all gossip.
2006-07-18 15:25:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a nice idea to think that girls can stop being pretentious and care about the more important things in life. while there are some girls who have already realized this revelation, there will be many that won't. my best advice is just to be yourself and don't sweat how shitty girls can be. life will be so much easier when you stop worrying about things like that.
2006-07-18 15:24:06 · answer #10 · answered by Lo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋