She accuses me for cheating for no reason, out of the blue.
2006-07-18 15:20:37 · 12 answers · asked by antwon 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
She's insecure. That is baggage. Do you have Delta tattooed on you? No? Then ditch the baggage.
This could also be her passive aggressive way of sabotaging your relationship. Either way it sounds like a bad deal for you.
2006-07-18 15:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by practical thinking 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't say why she is doing this, but some girls are very insecure and think that guys will cheat on them. Sometimes "friends" will drill the idea into your head. I had people call me and him sayin we were cheatin on each otha. Amazingly the call came from the same person. Jealousy can be a big part of rumors. People might be telling her stuff about you that may or may not be true. If you go out with your friends she may convince herself your out with another girl. You should ask her why she thinks your cheating on her. If she can't come up with a good reason and continues to do so even after you talk to her about it then maybe you should break it off with her. That's not a relationship to be in. Trust is the basis of a good relationship. I don't know if you love her or not or how long you've been with her but it may be for the best just to end it. Things could get worse before they get better. However, if you believe this is a relationship worth saving you need to tell her how you feel about her and show things to show u appreciate her. If she doesn't feel wanted it may be part of why she feels she's not the only one in your life. Trust can be a hard thing to gain especially if she's been cheated on before. If it comes down to her you may just have to ask her how you can make her see she can trust you.It can be very difficult sometimes to figure out what needs to be done to gain someones trust.I used to be friends with a girl who cheated on her bf and would turn around and accuse him of doing the same thing. She wanted to catch him doing it or in a lie to justify what she was doing like it'd make it ok. I'm not saying thats what is happening in your case. I'm just throwing out ideas. Hope this helps!Good luck!
2006-07-18 19:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by *Michelle* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several reasons why she would think that.
Maybe u r too handsome and she knows other girls cant keep their eyes off u. Or she may think she is losing you. Or she is trying to be sure about ur relationship to see if it's worth investing in.
You have to tell her you r not cheating. Dont yell. Calmly say it and remind her of what she means to you and why u wouldnt cheat on her.
Let her know that she has to trust u. If she doesnt, then she''ll kill the relationship with the false accusations.
2006-07-18 15:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by molei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you cheated on her in the past? If so, that's the reason. If not just sit down and talk it out. Ask her what made her think you were cheating. Let her explain. then you explain the reason for whatever it was. communication is always the way to a good relationship.
At least that' s what I hear. lol.
2006-07-18 15:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by Abi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act in a trustworthy way at all times and be trustworthy and honest at all times. If your girlfriend is being paranoid, allow her some time to see that you are a good guy. If she doesn't get that and still accuses you constantly, then move on. You deserve better - you don't need her negativity to get you down. It will only continue to hurt you and the relationship.
2006-07-18 15:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just sit her down look her straight in the eye and say listen i love you what would make you think that i ever cheated on you? when she tells you why she thinks that youve been cheating on her just tell her your sorry and that youll never do whatever it was that made her mad again if she still doesnt believe you then you need to break up with her and find a new girlfriend that will listen to you and have more trust in you!
2006-07-18 15:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by imaslave4u123r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up skippy! She's probably cheating on you,and uses her accusations to throw you off.
2006-07-18 15:27:34 · answer #7 · answered by Bubsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if she accuses you and you can't convince her otherwise, that you will be more likely to cheat on her (even though you haven't).
2006-07-18 15:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So cheat, then admit to it. It will gain her trust.
(Works better when she catches you in the act, then it's easier to fess up)
2006-07-18 15:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by yarbleman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ju5 5ho dat u kan b tru5ted and ju5 b u!
2006-07-18 15:23:58 · answer #10 · answered by Damu J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋