my sis is pregnant & she told me and she said shes shes not gonna tell my parents should i tel them?

Answer 1

That depends on many factors...
Is it that she doesn't want to be the one to tell them or is it that she doesn't want them to know?... Big difference. Have you asked her if you can tell them? How old is she? Does she live with them? Is she planning on keeping the baby?
I'm sure you can figure out what you should do by answering these questions.

Answer 2

It depends on how old she is. If she is a teenager and is still living at home she needs to tell them so that the baby will be cared for properly during utero...Unless your parents would react in a really bad way (i.e kicking her out, telling her that she is stupid...even though being a teen mom isn't smart) I would ask you parents what they would say to your "friend" that is pregnant if they were her parents...I would also tell your sister that if she is a teenager and not finished with high school and will be caring for the baby alone she should look into adoption. It is a real blessing to have a baby given to you when you are unable to have one...She needs prenatal care as well!

Answer 3

i think .. YES!!! maybe many people will not agree with me.. But look.. she does not have any experience in pregnancy, what if anything happen to her? who bear the responsibility? A pregnant woman should be taken care properbly. Diet and care is the most important to a pregnant woman espcially CARE!! parent care is the most important.

I know alot of them will say NO as this is her choice , or maybe people will say you did not keep your pormise but think far away for your sis! no matter how old is your sis i insist you tell your parent. They wil get angry but slowly they will understand. Or bring them to counsellor.. this what happen to me when i was only 15 yrs old.. i tell my mother about this myself.. as i am scared i dun wan to have anything happen to me... if i never tell my mother and until the baby is so big which you coul dnot abort what will happen to my life now? i got no money to support the child when i was only 15? What will happen to the baby? Do you gals wan baby to suffer with you? NO.. every mother wan their child to have great house great life.

AM I RIGHT??? THINK FAR WAY ... NOT THINK ONLY FOR NOW....

Answer 4

She needs to tell them, and the sooner the better. My daughter got pregnant and I wish she had told me sooner. She said she didn't because she couldn't bear to see the disappointment in my face. I respected her when she finally did and supported her decisions. Your parents may not react the way you expect them to (or want them to!), but your sister needs to let them know. Believe me, the dread is worse than the actual deed. She needs her parents help and support. Again, the sooner the better! But let her do it.

Answer 5

nooo leave it up to her she might just be waiting a little while and getting used to the idea herself before she goes and tells your parents because it is probably alot of weight on her shoulders if she is young and needs some time to let it sink in...they'll find out eventually even if she doesnt tell them because she'll start to show..don't tell just give her time..shes probably just reallly nervous if shes young & it sounds like she is if shes not telling them so yeah..
good luck to your sister and the baby.x3

Answer 6

Look after all, is his body his baby. she have the right to keep it or tell them or not.

My advise to you...wait and dont betrayed the confident your sis put in you and time will tell everyone she is pregnat she will have the belly, the cramp nauseas so it will be evident

Answer 7

if she is anywhere around the for some time during the day they will notice before too long. That is unless she is so fat that it wont show. But they will find out when she comes due.
Do what you think is right.

Answer 8

It is completely HER business if she is pregnant or not and up to her to tell your parents? I would say that unless she is a teenager then you may want to tell your sister that SHE should tell or YOU will.

Answer 9

No, give it about 2-3 months and she is gonna have to say something because her stomach will show and she aint gonna be able to hide it.

Answer 10

coming from experience... i was 32 weeks pregnant when i found out. i was going to give him up for adoption and then i came to my sences and decided to keep him. when i told my parents, my mom flipped, my dad was happy. my mom was sooo worried, but she was in the operation room with me when he was born ( my fiance was in cali for military duty), she fell in love with him, and is obsessed since he was a day old. im 24 and we had plans of getting married, but that is your parents grandchild, your sisters niece or nephew, consider that little baby and what is right for him or her. and once you see that little one, the world changes for the better.