What do you think about a woman who gets pregnant to trap a man into marriage?

Question

This isnt me. My husband's ex tricked him twice and she now has a one month old baby by another guy she tried to trap.

She had assured my husband she was using birth control on both pregnancies. He started out trusting her and she lied. He didnt know with the 1st pregnancy that she had deceived him. She told me that after I first met her. She was bragging "that she got pregnant to make him marry her". (We all worked for the same company.) She doesnt really want the kids, except for the child support, she puts them in daycare 12 hrs a day even on her off days.

I'm married to my husband becuase he "wanted" to marry me. I wouldn't want a man that didnt want me for me. I have children of my own and neither of us want more children, but if I were to become pregnant it would be an act of God because I'm sterile. And I wouldnt be getting pregnant by deceiving my man so I could force him to be with me.

Answer 1

a women can not trap a man into having a baby there are things
(protection) a man can do to stop this
a man takes the risk of this happening by having un-protected sex if he is man enough to stick it in he should be man enough to except responsibility of the out come and what ever it may bring

i feel sorry for the women who are branded as people that are suppose to do these sorts of things it was not just them it takes 2

why is it that a woman will ask this about another woman what will happen one day if you fall pregnant and he says the same thing about you as he has said about his last partner ?

Answer 2

I think she is a bad woman. Defective in the head. You know what? I am in the same situation. This happened to me 20 1/2 years ago.Well what I did was marry the girl because i know the responsibilty is mine also . He is now a junior in college and guesse what? i am still paying. I have to say that it has been bad times for me and some good. I do know this . My son is no bastard ,and he will know that a man will take care of his responsibilties no matter what. By the way. I am always mad at my wife for this ,but it has not been in vain. Yes we are still together because thier are 2 other kids that I really did want. Kinda wierd ,but it is true.

all you fellas out thier be a man and take care of your children.

Answer 3

I have a friend that was tricked this way. They never married, but he has to pay child support for 18 years. She is 10 now and told him she never wanted to see him again. He can't give her up for adoption unless the grandparents adopt her. So now he won't be in contact with her at all and still has to pay suport when she has a grandfather and evil step mother.

I believe that it is worng to make the dad pay for it in some cases. SUCH AS, he told her to get an abortion or give the baby up for adoption in the first place and signs ALL of his right away. Just like a mom can sign her rights away as a custodial partent.

Answer 4

I hate women like this. This woman must have very low self confidence,Who in their right mind want to have a child with a man who doesn't want to be with you. She has real issues. And I feel very sorry for the children. Also what would a man stay with a woman that no doubt deceives him. Sometimes staying together for the sake of the children is worse for the children they feel that stress it isn't fair to anyone.
Good Luck

Answer 5

I think anyone who gets pregnant totally to trap a man into marriage has a very low estimate of herself and her boyfriend. In this day and age, thinking a man will marry her just because she is pregnant, is obsolete. The marriage definitely won't work and the child is in jeopardy of being hated if the trap doesn't work. Forget it, if he doesn't want you now, he won't want you when you are pregnant.

Answer 6

I think it sucks that women don't have enough respect for themselves to think that a baby can make a man love her... Even if she succeeds in trapping him into marriage she will always know that it wasn't his choice and he may never be truly happy with her.... she shouldn't have to trick the man she loves he should marry her because he loves her not because of a baby...

Answer 7

IT ONLY HURTS THE CHILD IN THE END BECAUSE YOU REALLY DONT WANT THE CHILD TO BEGIN WITH SO WHEN THE MAN LEAVES ANYWAY YOU WILL ALWAYS RESENT THE CHILD SO THE WOMEN WHO DO THIS ARE NOTHING BUT DEPSERATE LOSER B@$CHES. AND TO THE COMMENT ABOUT MEN BEING RESPONSIBLE FOR BIRTH CONTROL, PLEASE!!!! YOU CAN BARELY EXPECT MEN TO BE RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH TO CHANGE THEIR UNDERWEAR LET ALONE WEAR PROTECTION. WHEN THE LITTLE HEAD COMES TO ATTENTION THE BIG HEAD GOES BLANK,NOW THERE ARE SOME GUYS WHO WEAR PROTECTION BUT WHEN A WOMAN IS DETERMINED TO GET PREGNANT SHE WILL DO ANYTHING IN HER POWER TO GET PREGNANT. SO ONCE AGAIN ALL BLAME WILL GO THE THE DESPERATE LOSER B@#ches

Answer 8

That is sad, when will people get that trapping people never works. Babies never equates everlasting love or love at all. I feel more sorry for the children because they dont ever get to keep their fathers when the men find out what happens or they get tired of that stupid women.

Answer 9

I got trapped but i didn't marry her which made her irrate. I don't believe that marriage should have to follow and in my case it has worked out great for everyone involved and now we all get along

Answer 10

i feel as though that is the most selfish act any woman or person can do to keep a person in their lives against their will...not only are they ruining the other person's life forever by having them forever in their lives but that child will be be in the middle of that...sometimes children can be hated for that reason...