i know she is just a girlfriend atm but its been quite awhile together and planning for the future in a year. this weekend i was with her and everything was fine. the only logical problem is the distance (so im not able to see her much) but still. i was just with her yesterday and she was acting normal. i dont know if wut we did yesterday is making her act all weird or not (just leave it as something happened romantic) it just feels like after we both do wut we wanted she is acting weird. cant even get i love u out of her. i know u cant force her but u know it just hurts so much after u had a great weekend with her (her being normal) than a day later not acting the same. i never had a problem with her going out with guys and hanging out until tonight. please somebody just help talk me through this
i know some feel weird after sex but still
2006-07-18 15:00:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
oh dude i have the same problem. ask her straight up if what you guys did was/ is uncool with her. if it was, apologize sincerely and don't ever do it again. treat her like the princess she is for as long as it takes until she's warmed up to you again.
2006-07-18 15:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by Nick Fury 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know if she was ever rejected by anyone that she really cared for in the past. If so, what's she's doing may be a defence mechanism that she's using to keep herself from facing the possibility of it happening again - no matter how much you try to convince her that your feelings are genuine. The fact of the matter is that you said there is already physical distance between you. If she's suffering from insecurity, she may be feeling that where there's physical distance it wouldn't take much for there to be more - like emotional distance or just flat rejection.
2006-07-18 15:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sonie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is backing off for one reason or another. Are you still young? Maybe moving too fast. Is there a possible interest in life that maybe causing this distance. From my experience with many long term relationships distance followed by a coldness equals a possible dumping. Sorry dude. Just ask her what is going on you seem distant.
2006-07-18 15:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by sickcured? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is the first time you guys have had sex then thats why shes probably freaked out right now..you should just talk to her about it before it gets worse because ignoring obvious problems is never ever good
and if this is the first time..like first first for her..it probably wasnt all that great and she might be confused as to why it wasnt what she thought itd be
but as for the other guys thing..if you and her had just had sex..shes definitely not thinking of other guys already
2006-07-18 15:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
~*~ If you have a suspicion or weird feeling of any kind, then something is wrong.. On one hand you can try talking to her about it.. yet, if you think she is cheating, talking to her about it would just let her know that she needs to be that more careful in hiding it.. You could also, make a surprise visit, follow her and find out what she does when you aren't around.. Goodluck..~*~
2006-07-18 15:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mexitaliana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i quite do not even understand your question. Is it that when you 2 have sex she is distant? you could write sex.....its no longer an offending time period......your tale may have made alot better experience.
2016-12-01 21:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think shes cheating on you or shes going threw PMS or is afraid she might be pregnant
2006-07-18 15:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by jettalady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋