Would you guys out there date a girl, who wanted to wait until marriage to have sex?

Question

Be serious. What percentage of guys do you think would?

Answer 1

I hope you find many yeses.
I have been divorced for 4 years and haven't been with anyone for the same reasons...I do not believe in premarital sex.
Sex is not the most important thing in the marriage.
Commit to each other and to God.

Answer 2

I'll tell you what - this isn't a secret but the way our culture is nowadays - you'd think it was. My husband waited 3 years just to kiss me at the altar and it was the most incredible experience ever. We have the strongest trust ever between us - it's absolutely amazing how making a commtiment first makes a man feel like a million bucks - what a boost to his ego to have a woman where I think of him so highly that I just knew he'd be great in the area of sex without even having kissed or touched each other before we committed to one another. Making that commitment first helps both partners understand how valued they are and how important that relationship really is. We also worked out alot of issues prior to marriage instead of focusing on the sex part and it made married life alot easier. It wasn't risking a possible lifetime of bad sex. When you have true love - these things just happen naturally and after commitment is a great time to let sex fall into place. It's more awesome than you know. When you have trust, emotional security and build up a man's ego - of course, he's going to be great in bed. With all that going for him - how could he NOT be? We don't need manuals or the latest sex toys to keep things interesting either. All the best comes through that commitment - nothing added necessary. I really know for sure that alot of guys didn't date me because they weren't serious about getting married anyway - it was like trying to see how far they could get. That's why I actually had to wait quite awhile to find this guy. Most guys assumed I must be damaged by a childhood of abuse or lacking a sex drive or lacking some emotional gene that would make me want them right away. I think some of them thought I must have a lesbian worldview. No, it's a matter of self control - ouch! - the word hurts most men - I think. For a long time, I felt like quite the dating loser - but now - I'm the WINNER. Want to know something really wild? I was dating a guy with to whom I was engaged and having sex when I made this life changing decision to wait until marriage. He actually thought I didn't love him anymore - but the fact was - all of the sudden I had more love for him than he could even understand or comprehend. One day I figured out what love really is and it's not a pleasure ride of great sex. We had so many serious issues to work on. He didn't get it and so he dropped me like a hot potato. BIG mistake on his part for not being able to wait. My dating life for a long time was meeting awful men who tried to take advantage of me in one way or another - but I was strong to say no. In any case, the decision to wait is ALWAYS a good one - regardless of your current situation. It worked out better than I dreamed it would. So, in answer to your question, definitely most guys would not wait even so called Christians, most especially if you take the kissing out of the pre-marital equation. I'd say maybe 5% or less would wait. Alot of people talk a great talk - but they don't live the life to back it up. But if you want that one in a million - then don't kiss any frogs.

Answer 3

i would DEFINATELY wait YES it would make me happy 2 kno that shes saving it 4 the perfect 1 and sadly i think only about 5 or 10 % of guys would wait 4 a girl

Answer 4

There are over 50,000 young men, 18 to 25 years old who are saving themselves for the right young woman and hoping that she will be wating for them. To learn more, go to www.lds.org and check for a meeting house near where you live. They have extensive singles programs. They encourage both young men and young women to postpone dating until they are 16 years old and are very serious about no sex until you are married. Check it out and you will find a lot of people who have standards and you will be welcome there.

Answer 5

i would... the guys that i know would probably b about 85%...but thats becuase most of my friends are like me... so given today the number is probably lower... if that makes ne sense...