I am newly out in the dating game again after 18 years and want to know how its done. I hate being single but ......... I kinda been having a booty call for a few weeks now, but me being me my stinkin feelings are starting to get involved. How do you know if its only one sided???How do you change it or is it too late??
2006-07-18 14:21:55 · 8 answers · asked by julieann 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you answered you question already.. You said you've been having booty calls....if that's all it's been, then that's all he wants.
Ask him to do something non sexual with you...movie, dinner, etc. see what he says...if he doesn't go for it then he doesn't care.
2006-07-18 14:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by qtpie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah Julie, You have asked the question of the age.Men are a true mystery even to themselves. Meet a man in church he acts one way, meet a man at a bar he acts another way. Same man different situation. The same way a man creates spontaneity a woman if she's aware can create situations. All men want sex, with or without love, but sometime along the way love comes his way.
A man would never date a woman he wouldn't bed. This he knows in less than a minute. A man can walk down the street and say in his mind to each woman he passes ,"yes , no , hell yes . hell no and very rarely a maybe.
None of this has anything to do with love. As to how you know.The answer is easy.
When you dine out, where are his eyes, If they're focused on you when beautiful girls go by , you're in. and if you're intimate and there's no loving looks after the loving,Beware.
I hope I've been helpful.
Phil Three Rivers
2006-07-18 21:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow go is the rule of the thumb. Take life easy and find yourself. Make a plan for the remainder of your life. Don't allow yourself to be romantically attached just yet. Look at the person you're making the beast with two backs with. Is he going to get you to your desired "endstate"? Or will he waste the remainder of your youth leaving you empty, older and unhappy (yes the seex will probably be great)
Check out the following website. It can answer your questions much better than I can. It will also give you a bird's eye view into a guy's psyche.
http://www.condomsbrasandstraightjackets.com/
Good luck
2006-07-18 21:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him.. about where he sees the relationship going. I wouldn't have started giving yourself up to him until he sealed the deal into a serious relationship.. if this relationship doesn't work out that way.. lesson learned and maybe next time you can wait until you know for sure how the other guy feels..
2006-07-18 21:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's how you know if it's just sex- have you met any of his friends? Does he take you places? If the answer to any of this is yes....it's not a booty call. If the answer is no....then....booty call. Sorry.
2006-07-18 21:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop having sex him for a few weeks and see how he acts ??? or tell him your falling in love and want to start a relationship and see what he does....
2006-07-18 21:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he interested in sex, he will ask for sex before marriage. If he truly love you, he will respect your decision to have sex only after marriage. Its better for us, woman to protect ourselves from man who played with our feeling to get sex. After he get what he want, he will dump us.....
2006-07-18 21:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like we have alot, maybe too much in common.
2006-07-18 22:09:21 · answer #8 · answered by teddybar67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋