2006-07-18 14:20:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's the right thing if you believe it is. My husband and I got married very young, I was 18 and he was 20. We've been married for 8 years and are still completely happy with each other, and we've got a 7 year old daughter (we had her when I was 19 and he was 21) who is the light of our lives.
Whatever your decision is, marriage or not, good luck with it, and believe in whatever decision you choose to make.
2006-07-18 14:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by LoonieGirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm going to answer this outside of my experiences, because it's always different. When I was young I noticed that 19 was a magic number. If you're a Suzy homemaker, It's very hard to get passed that age. The peer pressure is great. This does work for some, If you have found a soul mate. If you find when you're apart , even though you're with friends, that you're alone and he feels the same way, you've struck gold but if It's less than that, wait, Love will come when you least expect it.
2006-07-18 14:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should wait, You are 19, you still have a lot of life to live, not saying that marriage is bad, but when you get married a lot of things change, No more Living with the folks. BILLS, BILLS, BILLS!!! No time for friends. and it really gets worse when kids come into the picture. you will only have time for the kids and husband. Wait until after college or college age, like 25 Things will come into perspective.
2006-07-18 14:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by sabre6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends....do you have a plan made for your life. If you don't know where you are going you will probably end up somewhere else. You have to have some idea of where you want to be. DOn't just be a plankton and depend on the currents of life to move you around. Get you own motivation and decide what you want your life to look like. With a 50% divorce rate you very well could end up divorced.
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http://www.condomsbrasandstraightjackets.com/
Good luck
2006-07-18 14:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, what you are feeling is normal.Love is all about being wrapped up in another person.My advice to you would be to wait a little while before marriage.I was 19 when I got married and now at just 24 I'm divorced.So you see rushing into something may not always be the best answer.Hope that helps a little.
2006-07-18 14:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by ... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant tell you what to do but if i was 19 again i would never even think about marriage... Life is to short to be tied down for all of it.. Your young get out have some fun with your life and after a few years of fun and a good job you may want to think about settling down...
2006-07-18 14:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by nclonewolf1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am turning 19 in 2 weeks and will have been married 2 months on my birthday and i love being married to my husband and if you feel like you can stand this person every day for the rest of your life go for it. Me and my husband have been together for 2 years now and nothing's better than coming in from work and knowing your husband is coming home to you too
2006-07-18 14:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by j_danielgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married 26 years. I Married young. I really believe that at your age you have not learned to differentiate like and love, because there is a difference. There has to be comparability in interest, future goals, education, children . You also need to review your upbringing and see what feel you lack emotionally and make sure that you are not seaking this from your partner.
2006-07-18 15:40:28 · answer #8 · answered by dance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're ready....only you can tell if the time is right. My hubby was 18 and I was 19....we'll celebrate 7 years in Sept. It's better now than it was when we got married. I don't think I'm missing anything...except, lonliness. We have a wonderful life, travel, and love enjoying each others company. He's my best friend...I couldn't imagine life without him.
2006-07-18 14:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by k b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you're feeling is normal. We all want and need love. Do you have a job? Have you finished your education? Do you have a home? Do you love the person? Are you healthy? If you answered yes to these questions, go ahead and do all the things you need to do to get married! Congratulations!
2006-07-18 14:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by AMELIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋