the good guy is everything i could ever want but the bad guy is the love of my life. i known the bad guy for 7 yrs and we have been through a lot so i dont want to loose everything we have worked on. he dosent realize what he has yet...i know one day he will see but i know my worth and i know i deserve better. the good guy wants to give me the world but i want to give the bad guy the world. my mind says the good guy but my heart says the bad guy. do i follow my heart or listen to my mind. please help me...xoxo
2006-07-18 14:14:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
This is one of those cases in which you know the answer before you ask the question. That's why you're posting here - to validate what you want, not to get answers you don't already have.
If he really is "bad," he'll only bring you heartache and you'll feel like a nut for not leaving him before. The good guy, you could grow to love. But if you're not really feelin' it for the good guy, don't be dishonest or mislead him. It would be unfair to all. Maybe find another good guy you do like?
Final advice: if your best girl-friend in the world came to you with this same question, what would tell her? Now follow that advice.
Best,
G
2006-07-18 16:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 2⤋
I know you already know the answer to your own question but you just probably don't want to face it. You should always listen to your brain and make the wise decision of chosing the good guy...it'll always work out better for you....history has shown it millions of times. Besides, your heart will follow your decision also, if not right away, with time. Bad guys always end up hurting you and wasting your valuable years in life. Hope that helps :)
2006-07-18 21:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by Rose B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither.
The bad guy is NOT going to realize what he has if he hasn't realized in 7 years!! He knows exactly what he has, and that is someone who allows him to treat her worse than she deserves. And he isn't going to treat you any differently as long as you stick around.
The good guy deserves someone who wants to give him the world, not someone who is hung up on a guy who doesn't treat her well. No, it isn't easy to be in this situation. The harsh reality is that you aren't just going to be able to pick one of these guys and be content.
2006-07-18 21:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by BB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does the BAD GUY give you that the GOOD GUY can't? why not be treated well and loved rather than looked over while trying to change him in ways he won't? I belive the good guy would be the way to go.. just be sure he really is THE GOOD GUY..
2006-07-18 21:18:38 · answer #4 · answered by Help?orHurt? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should always follow ur heart but u should go with the good guy cuz maybe u would some day fall in love with the good guy u desevre better if i were u id go for the good guy....well good luck
2006-07-18 22:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by Marlen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are in a crisis.....maybe I can help....let's look at your options...Good Guy will love/like you no matter what....Bad guy doesn't even know what he wants, so how can he offer you what you NEED?...Good guy will be there for you.......Bad guy has yet to understand and appreciated you yet (and you and this guy have a 7 year history....right??).......WELL Honey this is simple....you don't need a rocket scientist to tell you......DUMP THE BAD GUY!!!! HE WILL NEVER,EVER,EVER, KNOW HOW TO APPRECIATE YOU FOR THE SINCERE KINDHEARTED WOMAN THAT YOU ARE!!!!!!.............Best of luck!!!
***Now i know you will have many responses and they will tell you the same, but YOU are the one who will HAVE DECIDE......so choose for your right..you only have one life to live so surround yourself with those who love you for who you are!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-18 21:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by Sol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad guys are always in the news, and usually the girl ends up dead. It's your pick!
2006-07-18 21:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by ricardocoav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with the good guy.....there both cute..........hang out with each one and see witch one you like!
2006-07-18 21:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where's the part about makeup?
2006-07-18 21:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good guy
2006-07-18 21:18:41 · answer #10 · answered by RENE H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋