I want to wait until we tie the knot so is that a bad thing?
2006-07-18 14:06:55 · 19 answers · asked by Christianchick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No it's never too late to be true to yourself. If he loves you he will understand. Just tell him why you want to wait and why it's important to you. Just know that it won't be easy to abstain so don't put yourselves in situations that can be a problem
2006-07-18 14:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your screen name may say allot. Its not to late to do what is right. Is he a Christian? Communicate with him how you feel, why you want to wait. Sometimes we make mistakes and need to just ask for Gods forgiveness and then do what we know is the right thing to do inside. You will feel much better if you allow yourself to do what you know is the right thing. And if he really loves you and respects you, he will understand and wait with you, for you. If he is a Christian he will know what is the right thing to do also. And then do not put yourselves in the path of temptation. But stand on your standards that you set. Make right with God and yourself first. He is a forgiving God. We all make mistakes.
2006-07-18 21:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by shy_tender_lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had sex with him, then it is wayyy to late to tell him to wait. You could tell him that you want to wait, but he would just say "well, we've already had sex". If you really like this guy and he really likes you, then you could tell him you want to wait with no problem.
2006-07-18 21:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by Joe S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You opened Pandora's box. It's hard to close it sometimes.
Check out the following website. It can answer your questions much better than I can. It will also give you a bird's eye view into a guy's psyche.
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Good luck
2006-07-18 21:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay my answers are cliches ...
No use locking the barn after the horse is out of the barn ..
Once the toothpaste is out of the tube , you can't put it back...
You've had sex. You are not a virgin. Waiting will not change anything.
2006-07-18 21:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by traveller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait.. let me see if i got this straight, u already had sex with him , but now u want to wait till u get married lol.. yeah u could do that even if it makes zero sense, but yeah u could do it..
2006-07-18 21:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all this is between you and your boyfriend, not your boyfriend, yourself, and us, Yahoo users. Second, it is totally up to you two to know when is the best time for you to have sex. How you do it, where you do it, when you do it, it is non of our business, this is all about you, we cannot manage your marriage.
2006-07-18 21:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mstislav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already done it, no reason to wait now, thats like givin a kid a bit of a candy bar then saying wait til your older to each candy, hes got the taste.
2006-07-18 21:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about letting the genie out of the bottle.Kinda late for that isn't it?
2006-07-18 21:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by Bubsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. you already had sex, why do you still want to "wait"?
2. just tell him, if he gets pissy about it explain to him your reasons... even though you guys already did it...
3. if he's still being a jerk about it, leave him...
2006-07-19 00:56:52 · answer #10 · answered by benniix3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋