2006-07-18 14:00:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I hope AT LEAST one of your friends knows, right? If not, I would tell one Most trusted friend FIRST.
Discuss with her (better a girl I think, given that I'm a guy), you're NOT alone. But our goal is to figure out what you want to do about your baby.
You say that you're so young... may I know how 'young' are you?
Your mom is Your family. She should be Your support unconditionally; Yes, you're scared that your mom's gonna get hurt or you'll scold you right? So what? Because she loves you; your mom was pregnant while back when she had you, remember? So she has experience in pregnancy. She can answer any embarrassing questions that you ask; Even if you choose not to keep the baby, She should offer you support.
To answer your question, YES, you will need to tell her eventually; but for the time being, discuss with One female friend FIRST. Maybe a couple (2) weeks later when you're ready, find a way to speak with your Mom ALONG with that TRUSTED FRIEND in a Restaurant (so that she can behave and won't create a scene); Give your mom some hints first, test for her reaction then tell her directly.
Yes, your mom might get hurt but given that you gave birth to you, she can handle anything you say to her.
I'll pray for you and Good Luck!
2006-07-18 14:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by whatisthis 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should've thought of that b4 you had sex, now you have to be "woman" enough to tell. You are going to have such a hard time,i mean, everything is going to be so much harder, now you're another statistic, I was in the same boat, Im not judging you but you need for someone to tell you the truth. I wonder how old you are? You shouldn't have been having sex so young, and childbirth hurts like you will never believe, the anger from your mom won't be anything at all compared to childbirth.
2006-07-18 21:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a woman. You can not hide past 4-5 months because you will begin to show. You are lucky to have a mom that cares, because mine did not. Im and I'll tell you more. tell your mother so you have some support, is the guy even around? Is he going to take the high road and pridvd for you and this child? Or is he a boy that will run away?
2006-07-18 21:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by Jade Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need support. Many will tell you that the mom is not good and I'm sorry about there relationship. You on the other hand needs to have a stronger relationship with you mom at this time. You need to take care of yourself and that baby. AND then please give the baby a good home. Place it for adoption. Don't abport or make your mom have to take care of it while you try to move on with life. Then don't sleep with any one until your married and ready to have a FAMILY.
2006-07-18 21:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by rkkcandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go tell your mom right now! I am sure there will be hurt and tears and anger, but get over it! If you are young you need help and you need to have someone guide you. You need to start seeing a Dr. on a regular basis and you need to learn how to care for yourself, it is no longer just you! You need to be taking prenatal vitamins, you need to be making choices and plans for this new life growing inside you. Let your mother help you.
2006-07-18 21:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your mom. She would be hurt but I'm sure she will understand.
2006-07-18 21:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got pregnant at 16 and had to tell my mum its hard but its got to be done
2006-07-18 21:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better now than later.
You are going to hurt her later too.
The hurt is going to happen 100%.
Dont prolong your agony by delay.
Tell her.
Now.
Get off the computer.
Do it.
You can only improve your life by working with your mom.
Do it now.
2006-07-18 21:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe it or not its going to start showing few months later so better tell her have her get used to idea
dont get an abortion its a sin its murder if u got pregnant had sex u should be able to face consequence face reality
2006-07-18 21:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no choice but to tell her, she will find out eventually. If you didn't want to hurt her you should have refrained from having sex.
2006-07-18 21:07:54 · answer #10 · answered by older woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋