Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months...and now im pregnant with his kid...I am 17 and he is 22...and im only 6-7 weeks along....My problem is...before we started dating...He was dating this other girl for 4 years!!! and left her partly because of lost feelings...but she said she didnt think she could handle just being friends with him...so they quit talking...and outta nowhere yesterday...i find out he has been hanging out with her and talking again...i am very jealous and he knew that from the start...but i dont need the stress and anxiety of feeling like im going to be cheated on...what should i do??????
i mean he cheated on his girl...with me....so could he switch back???
2006-07-18 13:18:12 · 14 answers · asked by ruspecialenuf 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
yes he knows im pregnant and we are still having pleanty off sexual relations...and no they dont have any kids together...this is both of ours first child
2006-07-18 13:24:27 · update #1
Someone who has cheated before is definitely more prone to cheating again. This does not mean that they always will, but it is likely.
I would sit down and talk to your boyfriend. You have a baby on the way and you should definitely know what is going on. If he is cheating or does cheat in the future, think about what is going to happen to your baby.
2006-07-18 13:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by Chloe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sound like trouble. The entire situation is a mess, it's way to much commitment for a brand new relationship and a lot of big decisions from two people that are not mature enough to start a family. I do not say that to insult you, I had my daughter at 23 and I wish I had waited til I was older. I would only think about yourself and the baby, and wether you really can handle a baby in your life at this time. You cannot count on him to be around to see this through.
2006-07-18 20:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by Olive Green Eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay you are very immature, I can tell that by all of your questions here on yahoo answers. With that said, how can you possibly think that he WILL NOT cheat? You've been with him for 2 months and already managed to get pregnant. 6 or 7 weeks pregnant might I add , so that means you instantly started having sex with him? That was a mistake and so is your child. I really feel bad for your kid.
2006-07-21 16:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep.
How do you lose your feelings, especially after 4 years?
You have the baby, you gonna lose the feelings for the baby?
You know things MIGHT be different if you didn't kiss the guy or spread your legs for him. What happens then, after 4 years. Does it mean he might actually find YOU interesting?
Guys should be interested in YOU, you the PERSON. You need to learn that.
2006-07-18 22:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a possibility.. you do what is best for you. You can sit down and talk to him about how you are feeling and your fears. Discuss your relationship and where it is going. Hopefully you'll find your answers by talking to him and finding out how he feels.
In my opinion, when someone breaks up with someone and starts a new relationship.. they shouldn't be in contact with someone they were just dating for four years. It doesn't need to happen. He's looking for trouble by talking to her.
2006-07-18 20:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by fuhreezing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheat -- always a cheat. Get out now before it gets to be too much to handle. Just remain friendly with him so that your baby will have a father in his/her life.
2006-07-18 20:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by tom8o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he will. he never resolved the issuses with her and now that their talking, they may have worked it out. know that you're pregnant may be reason he's still with you. you guys better talk now and find out where he wants to be. Your other qestions is do you want to be a single parent. He may be there but you need to know for sure
2006-07-18 20:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by Christina L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is very nervous and getting cold feet about u being pregnant by him....in my book of relationship rules number 3 says no contact with ex'es no matter what! talk to him about it, let him know everything u are felling and how unfair it is...if he truley cares, in my opinion, he will respect ur feelings and do everything he can to not have u feel that way...get him in line!! :-)
2006-07-18 20:52:15 · answer #8 · answered by butterflidesi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The both of you are wholly immature and disrespectful and shudder to think you will become parents.
2006-07-18 20:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe i have the same prob i am preg and i am scared sh!tless that he will go back to his ex! maybe you should talk to him and see what he has to say for himself
2006-07-18 20:35:23 · answer #10 · answered by sexylilbiatch1988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋