went to college and high school and guys there dont' like me
have a job and no boys works there and only boys are creeps and "loser"
2006-07-18 13:15:50 · 31 answers · asked by goodchoice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sorry, i should proofread my writing
i had no boyfriend since like forever...how do i make boy to like me
2006-07-18 13:20:03 · update #1
If you life them they will life you back
2006-07-18 13:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you have girl friends that are successful with guys and know how to dress well that you can trust ? If you are that lucky, let them go shopping with you to buy clothes for you and give you tips in so many ways.
The second point is not to put too much energy in wanting to have some guy in your life. Any guy that comes into your life and they will come. Be judicious and take things one day at a time and listen to your gut instincts for signs that tell you this new guy is a loser. While you don't have any one serious in your life, write down on paper all the realistic goals you want in a boyfriend other than sex.
This is a road map that will be a guide for you in the long run.
2006-07-18 13:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to get some self confidence this is very important no guy is gonna want a girl that walks with her head down and never makes eye contact. You need to walk tall hold your head up like you are somebody when a guy passes buy glance at him with a cute little smile. Give yourself a makeover nothing drastic just something to make you feel good about yourself, Get a new outfit something you normally wouldn't wear like some color, Change your hairstyle or make-up.
Once you have a bit of self assurance walk up to a guy buy him a drink just say hi.
Good Luck Out There
*Gracie
2006-07-18 13:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by gracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay yourself, you probably heard this before and you will again many times, but it's the best thing to do. If you don't stay yourself it'll never work out in the end. Now, if there's no men where you work, maybe you could find an activity to meet them? I don't know like going to the gym or something. Also something else that you might want to try is the internet, you might think it won't ever work but you could try to find a guy in your area who wants a relationship just like you. Good luck!
2006-07-18 13:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Staticx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell me where all you nice girls are and ill call all us nice guys over. Dont tell ne of the creeps btw.
Ne way you just act natural and who you are. I like intelligent girls who stand out from the shallow ones. Laso get ureself in an enviroment with guys that arent creepos. Maybe engage in a collegic club or organization where u meet ppl. Dont join a club that you dont enjoy. I wud advise joining a group that u like and u will find a guy there i think!
-I'll have my ppl call ure ppl!
Good luck!
2006-07-18 13:23:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you can't make anyone like you. Second of all, do you really like yourself? Do YOU like what you see in the mirror? I think that what may be happening is that you are accidently turning these guys off to you because of your lack of self-esteem. Trust me, I know how easy it is to believe that all your faults outweigh all your assets...but it's not true. It is quite opposite. You need to sit down and look at yourself in the mirror and really start admiring yourself. You like your eyes? Go see a beautician and find out how to accent them. Don't like your hair? Go see a good hair dresser and get a new do! Start looking in the mirror and liking what you see. I know there's plenty there to like. Then, just be yourself, if you like someone or want to see if you like them, go up and start talking to them. Talk about the weather, or some TV show, or music...it doesn't matter, just be real, honest, and yourself. It'll happen, you just wait and see. But, understand this. You MUST first love YOURSELF, then realize that you deserve to be with someone that loves themselves and is willing to ATLEAST love back as much as they are loved (you'll need to do the same). Find someone you feel deserves you and hopefully they will! :) Have fun, Matt.
2006-07-18 13:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by adtmatt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!
Your main focus should not be a guy! Just let nature take it's course and you will be beatin them back with a stick in no tyme!!!
Trust me I am 21 and haven't had ANY guy not even a creep or a loser approach me!
2006-07-18 13:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are creeps and losers. consider yourself lucky. They'll only screw up your life.
Relax...when it's time....Prince Charming will come riding. Until then, study and work like hell. Get smart....earn lots of money.
2006-07-18 13:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by Bruce B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with spelling and grammar. You did say you went to college right? Show it. At the very least use the spell checker.
2006-07-18 13:19:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 20 and you never had a boyfriend what are you going to be the female version of Micheal Jackson. you need to get out more your 20 have fun go crazy.
2006-07-18 13:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by honeygirland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, and don't "try" so hard. Think positively, some "creeps or losers" could be diamonds in the rough.
2006-07-18 13:18:49 · answer #11 · answered by Linda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋