Alright, so one of my best friends is a guy. I'm known for hugging him all the time, and always hanging out with him. But I only like him as a friend. But, people are always accusing me of wanting him as my boyfriend. Stupid, considering that I'm not even thirteen yet, but yeah. How the Hell do I get people to believe that I really don't like him in that way? x__________x;;
2006-07-18 12:44:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You don't need to convince anyone. You and your friend know what you have, and that's all that matters.
But you should not let him hear you say "accusing me," as you wouldn't want him to think it would be a CRIME for a girl to like him!
By the way, my son had lots of girl friends when he was 11 and 12, and by the time he was 15, he had more girlfriends than he knew what to do with! Tell your friend that!
2006-07-18 13:38:57 · answer #1 · answered by LazlaHollyfeld 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are about to learn a very valuable lesson here. PEOPLE ARE GOING TO THINK WHAT THEY WANT. no matter what you say. so my advice... don't bother trying to convince anyone of anything. just be happy that you have a great friend that you can hug and hang out with. i think the friendship between the two of you is really all that matters in the end anyway.
2006-07-18 12:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is tell them. Your true friends will believe you and the ones that don't oh well who cares. You could also lay off the public show of affection that's probably what is steering them in the wrong direction.
2006-07-18 12:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by wisegal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a cawktease and ease up on the secks. And I've heard from various people that killing his dog and then having secks with the corpse on videotape will undoubtedly "send the correct signals", FWIW.
2006-07-18 13:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is ask him to tell everybody that you dont like him. If he says it himself they'll believe. I know, I'm 13
2006-07-18 12:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by ProjectShowbread 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are not you and they dont know what goes on in your head if you like him you do if you dont you dont who cares what they think as long as you know the real truth
2006-07-18 13:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he is around just do your normal things and if he try to talk to you just walk away
2006-07-18 12:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by enreico 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant thay are gonna belive what thay want... but are u sure u dont like him like that
2006-07-18 12:52:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋