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i am gonna ask my girl to marry me...but how should i do it in the perfect way?

2006-07-18 12:42:58 · 27 answers · asked by dude 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

27 answers

how about thsi one its a good one

1. Buy a paperback book of poetry

2. Glue all the pages together

3. Towards the bottom of the book, in the exact center, carve out the interior pages in the shape of the engagement ring. (Use an exacto knife to get a clean cut) - Place the engagement ring in the carved out area to make sure that it fits.

4. Buy a piece of off-white cardstock (heavy paper)

5. On it, write the following poem:


There comes a time in every man's life,

When he must take a chance and choose a wife;

That time has finally come to be -

So will you take a chance and marry me?


6. Glue the heavy paper (cardstock) onto the first interior page - Glue the top portion only, so that the card can be flipped up to reveal the engagement ring.

7. Place the book on the back seat of your car/pickup.

8. On the way to a resort, stop at a rest stop to buy a soft drink.

9. Tell your sweetheart that you want to drink the soda before continuing on.

10. Tell her that you found a great poetry book and that you tried your hand at writing a poem. Reach over and give the book to her and ask for her opinion.

11. She will read it. There may be a look of bewilderment as your love realises that this is a proposal. Just at that moment of hesitation, say "flip the top page up."

12. If there was a moment of doubt as to what was happening, it will be erased when the engagement ring comes into full view.

13. Hopefully, her answer will be "YES."

2006-07-18 12:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by LaurLaur 3 · 0 1

From a women's opinion.
Plan the entire day around your proposal. Just make it an absolutely romantic evening. I suggest you eat out at an expensive resturant to pull it off. Or if you don't have much money. Just tell her your going to eat out at a fancy place, so have her dress up in a dress. Take her somewhere with a lovely veiw of the moon and stars. Bring candles and wine Orkids are very beautiful flowers. Give her those. Just have a lovely picnic at night. When your done. Do the traditional thing. Get on your knees and ask her.

2006-07-18 12:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

After having a great night out on the town, the next morning (say Saturday or Sunday), wake up very early to make her breakfast. (Make sure the sun isn't fully up yet and it's still very quiet outside to get the full effect). When she wakes up, bring in the breakfast on a lovely tray, kneel at the side of the bed, and ask her to marry you. You can make it more romantic by making sure the sheets are fresh from the laundry, the room is clean, the lights are off, sunlight is starting to peek through the curtains... that sort of thing. Gentle music in the background will also be a lovely touch. Good luck!

2006-07-18 12:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 0 0

I say plan a trip to the ocean with a packed early dinner maybe some wine if the both of you like it, just let her think you want to do something nice. When the sun starts going down talk to her about the relationship and where it is going and then start making out and while you are making out get the ring from your pocket all at once stop kissing and look her in the eye and ask her. I promise she will tear up. I hope this helps you.
Congrats and good luck!

2006-07-18 12:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by 4X4 Woman 3 · 0 0

1. Make it respectful (I asked my father-in-laws permission in advance)
2. Be prepared with the ring, but wait for the right time (good time and unexpected) Make sure you don't lose the ring...
3. Don't put her on the spot in front of other people unless you know for sure (she has said so) that she will say yes and that she is okay with attention being placed on her by a group.
4. Try to locate a suitable location, one you can take her back to for those walks down memory lane.
5. Make it romantic. Dropping down to one knee is a great thing to do.
6. Be direct with a simple question. "Will you marry me?" is just fine. You don't want her wondering if that's exactly what you mean.
7. Enjoy it even though you will likely be nervous. If you are happy when you ask, it will help her be happy when she answers.
8. When she says yes, write down the date in a safe place. If you take a year for planning things (highly advisable) then you will need to give her flowers, card, etc... on the same day one year later. You'll be tested on this. Women remember these things! You can forget later when you have an actual anniversary date (which you need to memorize).

One other thing, book your chapel, church, grounds, reception hall, etc... ASAP when she says yes. Those places book 10+ months in advance. Make sure she sees them before you book.

2006-07-18 12:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by Automation Wizard 6 · 0 0

There is no such thing as a single 'perfect' marriage proposal. My husband proposed in the middle of a hot afternoon at Disneyland while eating french fries. A lot of people might think it was tacky, but to me, it was the best feeling in the world. He got down on his knees and presented me with a ring, asked me if I would marry him and I just started bawling like a baby...yes and there were people around too.

If you love her, and she loves you--anything and everything is perfect. Good luck!

2006-07-18 12:49:54 · answer #6 · answered by the_memory_of_ashes 4 · 0 0

Romance! Romance. There are so many real great ways. Be origional. Take your girl somewhere special and meaningful to her. Is she a sports fan? Take her to a game and have the message played over annoucements or on screen. Likes hikes? Take her on a hike and have a big sign somewhere where she'd expect a beautiful vista. Is she into nice restaurants? Take her to supper at her favorite spot and have the waiters present her with a menu that says Will you marry me or dessert with the words written in whip cream. And yes get down on bended knee. We woman our suckers for romance and surprise! Just remember NOT to put a ring in a drink or food where it might not be seen and swallowed by mistake! GOOD LUCK!!

2006-07-18 12:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by buffybot67 5 · 0 0

dont be origianal, be odd, heres one to shock her. go somewhere but on the way have a friend whos a cop (if you have one) pull you over, have the cop take you back too the car, give hime the ring, and then have the cop go get her and put her in the back w/you. Then have the cop whip out the box (ring) and say can you identify this object for me, she will be crapping her pants and in tears at the same time! Great one its not so everyday proposal! Good Luck!!

2006-07-18 12:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by jmklk 2 · 0 0

hmm, that's a tough one. I just got proposed to and engaged yesterday myself. He took me to the spot of our "1st date" we ate and were in the car to go back, when he must have worked up the nerve. He had written this beautiful speech about since having me in his life, he'd learned that it was possible for him to believe in love, and to believe that he could be completely open to love, and that I had helped opened the gates to his heart, and if I would have him, he wanted to marry me, and than pulled the ring out to put it on my finger. I was in shock, and he was shaking. I said yes, but it's still scary for me. I guess the best way is to sit down and think about what she means to you, how she's changed your life, your heart, your world, and how lost you'd be without her in it. Keep it simple, but straight from the heart, that will be what she remembers, not some cheesy action like a proposal at a game on the kiss cam or something. Words that you mean, that move you, that express how important she is to your very existance. Good luck and best wishes.

2006-07-18 12:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Eyes 1 · 0 0

Go on a trip somewhere that has a good atmosphere like the ocean or a nice park and at the end of the day either at a nice restaurant or at a picnic pop the question after dinner.

2006-07-18 12:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by courtney m 3 · 0 0

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