Friend in trouble...?

Question

My friend just lost his job and he is the sole bread winner for his wife and two kids. He is reluctant to tell his wife out of fears that she would leave him. He gets up and leaves the house in the morning for "work" but usually ends up at a bar or strip club spending money and then comes home at his normal time. Should I tell his wife the truth or let him go on with this charade?

Answer 1

Well usually when someone asks a question like that it means its personal. So if i were you i would get a damn job. Women dont dig men with no money. On the other hand she would have to get a damn job too. Upside! Now if this is really about a "friend", i would get involved because if his wife is hot she could want someone to make her feel good after she leaves him. Of course let her know that you prefer women with low self esteem. Also you *MUST* rub it in his face, that usually makes you feel like a bigger man.

Enjoy the animal sex with your friends wife!!!!!

Answer 2

You should try and convince him that he needs to tell her...but it is way not your place to tell her. He needs to step up to the plate on that one. But let him know you are there for him (as best you can be). That's what friends do. He'll think you're an $#$#^ if you tell his wife.

Answer 3

talk to his wife and tell her to ask him about work every day

Answer 4

Stay out of it - if you tell her, it is going to stir up more trouble for them both. Encourage him to tell her but don't make things worse.

Answer 5

I think you should tell her about his job........but not what he's been doing lately......at least, not just yet....

Answer 6

you can only advise your friend not the wife....it's his business...

Answer 7

its ur friend. let him be. try to talk to him