Do you think it is wrong to enjoy having an affair? I love it, it is very exciting and the sex is so good I am married but my husband is in jail and I have filed for divorce but as much as I love it I feel sorta guilty what do you think?
2006-07-18 12:34:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is wrong to have the affair. It is stupid to have the affair and not enjoy it. Now the fact that you are leaving the marriage makes you single enough for most men. Have fun with it and don't worry what we think.
2006-07-18 12:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the guy you are with married too? as someone who is also separated from her husband - he refuses to sign div papers - I think it is okay to DATE while waiting for the divorce to become final..... BUT IF the guy is married too - YOU ARE WRONG WRONG WRONG - as a wife of a cheater - you are hurting alot of people - especially if there are kids involved!!
2006-07-18 13:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by oh2doula 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you've filed for a divorce you've already commited to end your commitment. Once I could see feeling guilty, multiple times no thats pattern behavior no guilt a choice
2006-07-18 12:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by what do you think? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IT IS WRONG I WOULD SAY TO HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER MAN WHILE YOU ARE STILL MARRIED. IF YOU REALLY DONT WANNA CONTINUE THIS MARRIAGE FILE FOR DIVORCE WHICH U ALREADY HAVE AND THEN GET MARRIED ADN HAVE ALL THE SEX AND FUN U WANT.
2006-07-18 12:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a tramp for not waiting until the divorce is final. I sure hope the other man isn't married also--then you're even worse!
2006-07-18 12:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That why they call them 'guilty pleasures.' Wait until the divorce is final.
2006-07-18 12:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how else would you be getting it if hes in jail someone one the side. U got to get pleased. if ur in love with ur hubby you shouldnt be doing that, you should wait on him, the question to you is, would he wait for you?
2006-07-18 12:39:08 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you raised Catholic??? Why would you feel guilty...for the fun of it???? Enjoy the guilt, go for it.
2006-07-18 13:08:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure your guilty conscience would clear up just as soon as the divorce is final.
Until then, please stop cheating on him.
2006-07-18 12:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's just that you don't love your husband anymore. I mean you don't hurt the person you love period.
2006-07-18 12:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋