I have been crushing on a boy for three years and he doesnt even no who I am.I want to tell him I like him so bad but I dont know how and I want him to get to know mee good before my b-day party so I
can invite him but I just dont have the guts to approach him.What do I do?
2006-07-18 12:15:57 · 29 answers · asked by ♥Da Pr0bl3m♥ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Stop being scared because being rejected is better than sitting & wondering "what if."
2006-07-18 12:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try being friends w/ him first. Start a casual convo and go from there. (Doesn't have to be a long convo) Since he doesn't know you exist, I'm guessing you don't know him either. Being friends with him first will let you know if he's really all you think he is or a wack job! NEVER SEND A LETTER! It's too public! If you must send him something on paper let it be the invite to your party.
A few don'ts:
1) Don't send a friend to be the messenger between you and him. It's like that game Telephone, something's bound to get messed up.
2) Don't try to hook him up with a friend of yours. What if he falls for your friend? Then you have another problem...you can't be with the guy of your dreams cause he's with your friend.
3) Don't sit around and think "what if". It's very nervewracking talking to a crush but it's like being on stage. After the first few times it's not so scary anymore.
2006-07-18 12:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, imagine writing a letter to him. What would it say?
Go ahead and do it (but do not send it!)
Now, edit it. Remove all of the stuff that you think would make
you appear really bad or would be upsetting to him. That would
leave something pretty simple, fairly straight forward.
Now, memorize that.
Then, talk to him and slip in pieces of what you have
memorized, perhaps not word for word and certainly not
straight out... but get at least most of what you had intended
to say.
DO NOT SEND HIM THAT LETTER.
Realistically you'll becoming on much stronger than he
would know what to do with. However, if you do it piecemeal
(piece by piece) you can achieve the same results without
setting off the fire alarms.
After you have gone the above process a few times, you'll
find that you are confident enough to just talk to him.
That's really all you want to do right now anyways, isn't it?
2006-07-18 12:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello I'm a 29 guy, Me and my wife are here. And want to give you some advice. The first thing you should do is : call a friend and let them talk to him. Or you talk to him. If you say what if all the time it'll never happen. So go take a chance and invite him to the party.
2006-07-18 12:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by firecoolerman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him an invite to the party and get to know him there. If he doesn't come, he is probably not interested. But, if he shows up, there's a good chance he may like you. Invite him and see what happens.
2006-07-18 12:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds horrible, but I liked a guy a lot and was too nervous to even talk to him. Every day I would walk past him and smile and that was it. I was so afraid of rejection that I decided to try and hook him up with my friend. I started talking to him about her and the next thing you know, we were friends. He ended up falling for me instead of her and we became really close. Needless to say, my friend wasn't too happy but she got over it. Maybe you should pick a friend that you're not very close to.
2006-07-18 12:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by CherBear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can you really lose? If you say he doesn't know you exist and you've never really done anything about it, then what can hurt? I mean there's the possibility that he may not like you back. But what if maybe he does? Take a risk. Without risks, you won't get anywhere.
2006-07-18 12:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take charge and say that u like him dont let any body stop u just go to him and invite him to ur b-day and then tell jim u like him dont be sarced to get rejeted lot of people do and some dont just get to know him first before u do any thing because u dont know him like that u hear me take it slow like the song
2006-07-18 12:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by Jeovanna A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just invite a bunch of your friends and his friends over and have a party. During the party, go up to him and ask if he is having fun and causually talk to him. I can help you plan a party:)
2006-07-18 12:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by lax4life0022 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus play it kool. Dont b trippin or nothin. Jus come on out and say it. If he wont ask u out u ask him. Do not wait for love u gotta take action. If u want somethin bad den u should b able to do n-e-thing 2 get it. but not nasty stuff dough. Dont b like i like u i hope u like me not non of dat. Jus like try to talk 2 him and b kool wit him(make sure u lookin nice and smellin nice) and den jus say i need to get on wit dis (say it out lout) ive been kinda crushin on ya a bit and i was wondrin if u could come to my party as my date. And if he dont like BRUAD Den ef him. He aint nobody cuz he probaly gonna b missin out on a grl of a lifetyme. Dont trip dough. I hope my vice help ya.
2006-07-18 13:04:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him. the worst thing he can do is say no but at least you tried. I used to be like that too and now I wish I would have had the courage to tell people how I feel/felt about them.
2006-07-18 12:19:39 · answer #11 · answered by flutterflie04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋