I dont get it i dont get why people like to ignore other people... im talking about my ex. she said when she broke up with me that she wanted to stay friends and i said yeah thats prob the best thing for us... now when i try to talk to her i get no reply no hi.... she used to call me on the ocasion and now nothing... i called her and left a message asking her what was up and i got no response.. mind you that was only one call... i sent her a message aftewr she got back from hong kong and no reply i odnt get it she wants to stay friends but how can people stay friends if you dont talk to them... ahhhhhhh... help me out please
Thanks alot...
~Tim~
2006-07-18 12:08:42 · 11 answers · asked by Ogrodnick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
XXXXXXXXXXX maybe she still have feelings for you and being friends will only put more fire in the flame. Maybe she thought that you too could be friends at first but came to the conclusion that her heart strings were tighter than she realized and find it easier just to let go altogether. Breaking up with someone you cared so much about is hard. Letting go sometimes is even harder. Love is like an addiction. Having a little bit is not enough. You always crave for more. And when you can't have it all, having none sometimes is the best thing. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-18 12:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that you deserve an answer no matter what. How old is this ex and why did u 2 break-up if I may ask?
Everyone has there way of showing there feeling's and I feel that she should just tell you straight out and not beat arond the bush...You knwoher best,right? Do u think that she is doing this to get under ur skin?? Maybe,she has feeling's still and does not know how to tell you. Who knows?
I honestly think that you should let her go and not worry bout her...u are a good person and there are plenty of more ladies out there, waiting on you...keep in mind...there is someone out there for every person...just keep looking..it is not healthy to stay in that situation..so with that much said...take care and i wish u the best
laters...and I hope I did not offend you...
2006-07-18 12:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by itsa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she has changed her mind. Maybe she still has strong feelings for you and found out that just being friends wasn't enough. It's better to stay away from you than try to be your friend and have all of those old feelings come flooding back. Or maybe she decided that she just really doesn't like you anymore. If I were you I would just move on and forget about her.
2006-07-18 12:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just broke up with my guy too like 3 months ago and my ex calls me like 30 times a day and I'm not exaggerating he leaves voicemails until its all full I tried to be friends with him but he wanted more and that made me uncofortable plus now I'm with someone else so of course I don't want to talk to him because of my new guy thinking something because of our past I know that sounds mean but that its how it is but GOOD LUCK finding someone who will really appreciate you.
2006-07-18 12:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by nena24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tim u got to acknowledge the fact that people change thier mind .. so , she may have change her mind about that friendship thing but she don't want to tell cuz she don't want to hurt u or may be she can't deal with this sort of issues ,,, u got to forgive her and let it go ,,
i think u still got a feeling for her but u don't want to admit it .... so stop it ,,, forget her and move on in ur life ,, there's someone out there for u but u won't recognize her until u finally finish the story of ur ex and get her out of ur mind and of ur life ..
TURN THE PAGE
good luck tim ;)
2006-07-18 12:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by Nicholet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say Tim the person you are describing is not even worth being your friend as friends are who stand by you in thick and thin and if she is not replying to your messages she is not worth your friendship. As friendSHIP is a ship that never sinks.
Take care and forget about her.
2006-07-18 12:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by Sharon S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes found someone else and doesnt wanna bother with you anymore tim, thats about the only reason why i would think shes not calling you or emailing or w/e you guys communicate with! Time to let go and find someone else to call and message bud!
AsH
2006-07-18 12:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she really didn't want to be friends in the first place.
2006-07-18 12:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might not be totally over you yet and it's hard for her to talk to you as a friend. give it time.
2006-07-18 12:15:14 · answer #9 · answered by answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she found out about something you did and just isn't ready to talk to you yet.....or she may just be really busy
2006-07-18 12:16:50 · answer #10 · answered by katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋