What would you do if your ex (who is the father of your child) was not helping you financially support the child? Would you let him see him/her? Would you try to take his rights away? Does he have any right to call your now bf and bug him abou the issues he has with you?
2006-07-18 12:06:54 · 16 answers · asked by Caitlyn's Mommy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
DO NOT use your child to get money from your ex, go to court and have them order him to pay, if you use your child and the courts find out that's what you did, YOU will get in trouble, and do not talk bad of your ex in front of your child. The child is going to hurt no matter what, DO NOT ADD TO THE HURT. And do not keep your child from seeing hime, the court's will not like that either. And it will hurt the child.
2006-07-18 12:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by gil3moj@yahoo.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that Ex really not being a great father to his kid.. and He even not helping financially at all! you still can go to Child support Dept. and make sure he pay and if not then they will make sure that taking out of his pay check and make sure you give all the information to them and They will take out his pay check each two weeks or month depend.. and He has no right to call you now boyfriend bug him about this issue... Your boyfriend can tell him Well you know dude, you need to be a better father and do more better with your financially support your child... and She is a great mother and she done alot of things.. and Sorry to say that grow up and be a man.. If you want to keep on calling that fine I will simply change phone number.
And you will have the right to make sure that he not going to see his kid.... at all.... that how my mom did and she did a great job.
2006-07-18 19:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not deny the child the opportunity to have their father in their life. Why take it out on the child. They don't understand about financial support at this age and it will only cause problems for everyone in the long run. I don't however think it is right for your ex to call your bf and ***** about you.
2006-07-18 19:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by melissa_anne_maison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would turn him into Child Support and make him pay. I would let him see her because he is the father after all, and i would not want to try and take his rights away, not unless he wants you to. And no he has no right to bug your bf, if he keeps it up he might get some asss whooping. Anyway he has the responsability to be there for your child financially. Hope everything works out :)
2006-07-18 19:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by ange!s26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take his happy butt to court and try to get court ordered support taken directly out of his paycheck each month. Legally he has the right to see the child whether or not he is supporting it. If you withhold this right it will work against you not only now but years from now with the child. A restraining order will stop his harassment. This is a nasty deal and you have to keep your nose clean so you can win. Use your brain and think clearly and not emotionally. Good luck!
2006-07-18 19:16:28 · answer #5 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to court for child support but do not take his visitation rights away. That punishes the child who deserves to have her father in her life. The child will be angry with you later in life if you keep her father away. Your BF could get a restraining order from the police if your ex is harrassing him.
2006-07-18 19:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get in touch with child support recovery. I would not allow him to see the child. Yes, I would try to take his rights away.No, he has no business bugging your new bf at all. Sounds like he is a major loser!!
2006-07-18 19:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off - failure to pay child support does not mean that they can be denied visitation. If the order states visitation times then you must legally allow visitation. Second - contact you state child support agency and have them handle your case if they are not already (it is free in most states). Third - Document everything good and bad for both parties. (impartial logs work wonders in court) Forth - Once all the above is completed then go to court to change visitation based upon the evidence not failure to pay.
2006-07-18 19:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact your lawyer or child support worker-
if he won't pay then his visitation rights can be affected.
And he has no right to call your new bf- tell the lawyer
about it.
2006-07-18 19:11:28 · answer #9 · answered by ladders_to_fire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember 3 things. Custody. Sounds like you have that one bagged already. Visitation. Only allow visitation if it is on your terms. You can have a court rule for supervised visitation. Support. If he does not support he does not get any rights to visitation. Its as simple as that.
2006-07-18 19:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋