my friend has a friend that i don't like
i act like i like her but i really don't
she gets on my nerves
now my friend wants that friend to hang out with us
this girl is also on my team so that is why i act nice to her
what do i tell my friend so that she doesn't get all mad even though she shouldn't becasue she talks behind that girl's back a whole bunch?
2006-07-18 11:53:39 · 10 answers · asked by citygirl18 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i had to deal with something like that. Here is what you do: if your friend talks behind that girls back, don't worry, just tell her you don't like her friend bcuz she might just be wanting to have that friend hang out bcuz you act like you like that person and so she might be thinking ' well i guess if my friend likes her I'll let her hang out with us.' Then your friend might even be GRATEFUL that you said that. It happened to me. And if she gets mad tell her to chill. Tell her shes the one talking behind her " friends" back
2006-07-19 12:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by dont_break_myheart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her the truth and nothing but the truth. And also tell her that shes not a good friend but im sure she'll need proof! So three-way the girl on the phone and catch her being 2-faced while ur good friend is on the other line listening. Thats the best way!
2006-07-18 12:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her exactly what you just told us, the truth. She doesn't sound like much of a friend to the other girl anyway , unless she's talking about you behind your back also. Just tell her how you feel
2006-07-18 11:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by Veronique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her the truth but know it will get back to the other chick and she will start with the smack talking if you can handle that then go for it if not then just for get about it and find some new friends
2006-07-18 11:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by pyrofiregoddess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just tell her her friend a good of friend as she thinks she is she talks about you alot to other people and i dont like her and i dont feel comfortable being around her and leave it at that
2006-07-18 11:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by sexy_enchanted2320032005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and tell her the next time she starts talking about her!
2006-07-18 11:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell your friend that you dont like her friend and leave it like that / maybe she wants you to like her but she does not know how to she may know that you dont like her / you can have more than one friend at a time
2006-07-18 12:05:02 · answer #7 · answered by jeannette_burnard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend the truth just because ur friend likes her doesnt mean you have to
2006-07-18 12:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by da unknown poet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you only want to be friends, but say it nicely.
Oh, and make sure she's in a good mood when you say it. ;)
2006-07-18 11:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by omgoddenownerengorgenzownzownorp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesn't care about u any more and she want to be free from u ,get another fiend to make her jealous!
2006-07-18 12:00:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋