1.family
2.friends
3.relationships boyfriend /girlfriend
2006-07-18 11:35:27 · 16 answers · asked by dorkylilgirl15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is all about your perspective, try to learn to really love yourself and you'll see the world in another light, or at least have the energy you need to get through it. I feel the same way that you do a lot of the time, but if you just really learn to enjoy the little things in life, whatever it is that you're into, it makes it much better! Good luck!
2006-07-18 11:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by Lotus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, life constantly seems to cut us a raw deal, all the time. I do not truly think that there is an answer as to why it is confusing, hard, and depressing: it just is. Sometimes, those experiences allow us to grow and develop as people, and we come out stronger than when we went in. We do have control of our own destiny, so maybe that is the answer right there.........
2006-07-18 18:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really don't know, i often find myself asking the same question, but i have come to the conclusion **** happens for a reason,every thing you go through some how makes you a better/stronger person weather it be fiscally or mental,but when I'm Farly down and like no ones listening to what i need to say i take a long hot bubble bath, through in some scented oils turn off the lights light some candles,lock the door, and blare my music as loud as i can and block every thing out for a good long hour and a half it really does make me deal a little better when i get out i Cinda forget about every thing for a while,but none of that said why me music its got to be something that makes me want to dance,i just lay there in the tub and sing to the music.
2006-07-18 18:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that feeling,many times i thought in putting an end to my life but every time some hope (so little)but it appears i don't why it appears but i hope that the coming days will be more better than now i am waiting ! i wish if i could tell u my story but u will be more depressing,but it is points:bad childhood,failed at high school,having a career i don't like,didn't find the true love till now,sick mother and also sister(i love her so much) and may die early,sick bother too, i waiting the hope ever day,what i can do except waiting !!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-18 18:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that bad really, unless you have some horrible disease, burns, or your africa desert poor. that would suck.
There's always somebody in way worse shape than you.
If life were easy and you knew all the answers wouldn't you get bored? Make the best of it, it's all you got, until you get fed to the worms.
If you can't get over it, see a therapist, depression also sucks.
2006-07-18 18:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by downdrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what you make of life. You are the only one who can control and make changes. You should be able to learn and grow from some of your decisions. No one said life is easy. If things are that difficult for you, you might want to consider seeing a counselor/therapist.
2006-07-18 18:39:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not have to be this way.
I was like that when I was younger , but I grew out of that style of thinking.
Change your thought process by doing true inner contemplation.
It takes some practice , but the result is a wonderful life.
http://www.siddhayoga.org/
2006-07-18 18:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by Matty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't have to be depressing......your problem probably is that you are too attached to a picture in your mind of how things ought to be...you don't have to hate hardship and love easy times....just rest in your inner knowledge that what ever happens is an opportunity to grow and learn....just be there, open and aware, in each present moment....what ever you feel or think is okay.....it's not your job to judge yourself......may you feel peaceful, joyous, solid and free....apoth:)
2006-07-18 18:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by awakened_path_of_the_heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are having a tough time. Sorry to hear about that. But I must ask you, and I hope you don't get mad at me; are you sure that your attitude is not what is causing you to feel this way? The reason I ask, is that oftentimes our own attitudes shape the way we feel about events and people around us. Please try to feel better, and try to find other people your own age to talk to and compare notes.
2006-07-18 18:39:37 · answer #9 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is not hard, it's a challenge.
It's all how you look at it.
Enjoy the challenges and make your life what you want it to be.
2006-07-18 18:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋