My girlfriend jsut got back from the beach and she said she would call me but when she got home she started to watch tv and so I said "hey babe, call me back when your show is over, ok?" and she said ok. 2 hours later she calls and then she got on the computer and I got kinda "sad" I guess and she was like what's wrong? so I told her that "I wanted to talk to you but you wanted to watch tv insted but i'm fine, it's all good" and then she goes on the computer (and she can't multi task very well) and i'll ask her something and she'll jsut be like "wha wha? huh?" and then i'll have to start all over so I get kinda mad when she get's on and she already promised me 3 times that she wouldn't go on the pc or watch tv when she's talking to me on the phone, but she still does it, and when I got mad for being on the computer she just said "look, i'll talk to you later" and then we got off the phone...but I'm REALLY sad about it and I want to talk to her, am I just being to sensative?
2006-07-18 11:24:20 · 8 answers · asked by Ben 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, she is acting very rudely. Maybe she is just taking advantage because you will put up with this. I'd stop calling her so much and see if she really wants to talk to you. Back off a bit, and I'll bet she'll be more attentive.
2006-07-18 11:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by Ricky 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
2 years ago, I had a boyfriend that would do the same thing to me. Never really 'there' when I talked to him, always watching his tv show, or on the computer, or anything else while on the phone. I was not clingy or needy, but when I talk to someone on the phone, I expect them to actually have a conversation.
It was also the same way when I thought he'd call me at a given time. Other, more important things to him, kept coming up and he'd give me a million excuses.
I finally found out he'd been chatting and webcamming online to a dozen other girls, and the tv show watching was really watching it with another girl. If your gf makes you feel untrusting or like she's blowing you off, trust your insticts. They're usually never wrong.
2006-07-18 11:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by The Older Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she just has to much on her self she might not want to talk to u for some reason. my lil bro gf calls he allllllllllllllllll the time and he thinks it gets on her nervous. any way u should have a some one u feel happy with all the time, and if she cares more about tv and the computer more than u should find a new gf.
2006-07-18 11:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by fiercegirl28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something else to take up time if she's busy. I think you ARE being too sensitive if you ask me. Don't be obsessed with her, because it sounds like you are. She doesn't do that, why do you obsess with her? It's good you told her that it bothered you though, but seriously, you're thinking too much and you guys just hung out, what more did you want?
2006-07-18 11:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not being overly sensitive. She's just incredibly rude. Try to have a face to face conversation to see if she's putting you off because she's not as interested in you as you are in her, or just because she's insensitive.
2006-07-18 11:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by fanofpi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...but at the same time, she does not sound too interested in you...I would not call her anymore...let her call you when she's ready...If she keeps doing it, she doesn't care what you think and will just keep doing what ever she wants. I would consider finding someone else....
2006-07-18 11:29:57 · answer #6 · answered by jonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is busy f ucking the guy she met. You are a pu ssy and need to grow some balls.
2006-07-18 11:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by Greypoupon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur being a baby. Grow up or she'll end up dumping you instead.
2006-07-18 12:12:45 · answer #8 · answered by momokitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋