i have recently had some stuff happen, and i won't go into detail about it, but it made me wonder why some ppl are such haters. why is it that some ppl tear down the achievements of others even when they are not getting any personal pleasure out of it? why is it that some ppl can't even stand behind their own friends and family? they can't be happy for anyone. you see them. they're always angry and waiting for someone else to screw up so they can try to make them feel worse. why do you think they are doing this? if you have personal experience with one of these ppl or you are one of these ppl please enlighten me.
2006-07-18 11:16:12 · 5 answers · asked by lizwall526 2 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Because many people are raised to make a scene and find fault even if there is none there, which is to say they play games.
Games are addictive and it is very hard to get out of the games that you've been taught. Even YOU probably play games. Which ones? Read the book below slowly, and the ones you LAUGH AT are your own games.
2006-07-18 11:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not that they are haters, necessarily, they may not know any better. My dad was raised during the Depression with a strict father who favor his daughter more than a little and didn't like my dad for some reason. My dad thinks that he is being helpful and supportive when he is negative. My youngest brother is the same way. Always criticizing, trying to sound as if he is better than you. I think he is insecure. Therefore, he has to make it sound like he's making more money, he's better at the job, he has a pool membership, etc. You just have to believe that you are all you need at this moment and that you can do anything that you set your mind to. In fact, I bet you've already proven that more than once. Focus on the good things and believe in you. And remember to forgive them; holding a grudge doesn't change them or do anything to them, but it can make you bitter.
2006-07-18 18:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people thrive off of others failures. It's always been that way and will continue to be that way. All you need to do is continue being the success you've become and F**k all the other s**t!
2006-07-18 18:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by daango26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They tear you down because you make them feel small. They are not generous enough, spiritually, to be happy for you.
2006-07-18 19:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm mad at the world...hehe
2006-07-18 18:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋