Me and my husband have good sex but right when im on the brink of exploding he stops cuz he is done and im not mad just frustrated cuz thats the way it always happens unless we are both intoxicated please help
2006-07-18 11:14:57 · 4 answers · asked by K Estrada 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Who cares if you sound needy or desperate? You are, aren't you?? Desperate for that explosion???
Most women don't realize that men LOVE when you tell them exactly what you want them to do to you, how hard you want them to do it and how long you want them to do it for. Take a deep breath and lay it all out for him. Just remember, it's all in the phrasing. Their egos (God bless them) are fragile. You can't make it sound like he's a bad lover...you have to make it sound like you're just a wanton little harlot that needs him desperately.
Trust me, you'll make his day. No..that's not true. You'll make his week! Good luck!
2006-07-18 11:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by Tish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is what you do, you tell him that you want to be on top and control the moment then after you guys are done, tell her that he has given you a great time and that you want to do it like that again and again because he is a good lover, and that will make him feel better like he is really satisfying you. When I am on top I usually climax very fast, and my husband is a great lover, he always waits for me, though we have been married for a while and know eachother pretty good so he know what I like and I know what he likes, maybe you guys can start getting to know eachother better. Good luck!
2006-07-18 11:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by Lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to speak up. If you are close and he stops...tell him to keep doing what he was doing :) Communication makes for great sex.
2006-07-18 12:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by NancyO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take matters into your own hands and maybe he will get the hint!
2006-07-18 11:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by jilldaniel_wv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋